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Going to meet that cute 49 yr old teacher tonight. How to keep frame?
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She already told you to move on. Don't be a textbuddy, you let her **** up your mind
Then why does she send me unsolicited text messages then with cute pics? Trying to tease me? She should just fvck me now lol then.
Yeah... to tease you and to stroke her ego. She ****s with your brain. Seems like she got you where she want to. Save your dignitiy
The Duke
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To keep you on the hook. The items being traded are attention and sex. You keep shelling out attention, yet are getting no sex in return. In doing so you devalue your manhood and she knows this very well. Joke is on you!
Her best friend that I met that night knows about me too cause they talk. Why would she waste energy like that though. So I want sex from her. I'll give her the attention she needs but just give me some occasional sex at least.
MrWood
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you still are not, listening. *sigh*
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Spot on. That's how you get friendzoned.
Well I'm almost 14 years younger. I mean obviously there is something she likes in me to keep talking to me and sending me cute pics. Minus all this, what is the best way to escalate things? I feel attraction to her. Honestly, I do. She's really cute.
So even if they look like melania trump you wouldn't?
So I flat out just asked her if she wanted to hangout this weekend and beat around the bs. She said again the age gap is too great and shes sorrt for leading me on but says shes too old for me. She said we can still be friends and possibly hangout but says the age gap too great! Im open to hanging out still I told her.
Really pissed now. Low smv chick 14 years older let's me down after teasing me. I'm about to just give up on ever getting married in my life. Worked on her for an hour trying to convince her otherwise. Should I hangout ad friends with her still as she suggested?
Really pissed now. Low smv chick 14 years older let's me down after teasing me. I'm about to just give up on ever getting married in my life. Worked on her for an hour trying to convince her otherwise. Should I hangout ad friends with her still as she suggested?
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Your desperation is really pathetic even to a woman 15 years older that has no walls left
So what should I have done in this situation
MrWood
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so you are mad at her, after the 4th time she said no and yet you still asked her to "hang out"
we never saw any indication of her teasing you or leading you on. All of this was in your head.
you should have walked the other way... weeks ago.
She would send me selfies almost every day
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@biggoal
I'm going to side with you on this one. Her behavior of sending daily photos of herself is not what platonic male/female "friends" do. You know this and so does she.
It's not so much that she intentionally lead you own. It was more vanity and disregard on her part (she was more consumed with getting attention than risking ... sending out a mixed message).
I see no way that this is salvageable. If you want to hang out with her ... knowing that there will be no romantic/secksual outcome, then that's your choice.
Personally, I think you should try to hang out with her. I say this because it'll be good male/female interaction experience for you. You'll have no anxiety because you already know that there will no 'exciting' outcome. Then, when you do meet someone that seems more 'promising' you'll have a little bit of recent male/female interaction experience behind you that could be helpful.
If you do decide to hang out with her, be prepared. Once she becomes involved with someone, I can almost guarantee that you'll become invisible to her (that's the way most women are).
I'm going to side with you on this one. Her behavior of sending daily photos of herself is not what platonic male/female "friends" do. You know this and so does she.
It's not so much that she intentionally lead you own. It was more vanity and disregard on her part (she was more consumed with getting attention than risking ... sending out a mixed message).
I see no way that this is salvageable. If you want to hang out with her ... knowing that there will be no romantic/secksual outcome, then that's your choice.
Personally, I think you should try to hang out with her. I say this because it'll be good male/female interaction experience for you. You'll have no anxiety because you already know that there will no 'exciting' outcome. Then, when you do meet someone that seems more 'promising' you'll have a little bit of recent male/female interaction experience behind you that could be helpful.
If you do decide to hang out with her, be prepared. Once she becomes involved with someone, I can almost guarantee that you'll become invisible to her (that's the way most women are).
