frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
girls in their 20's how many virgins
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: Re: Re: girls in their 20's how many virgins
Still wondering here Joe... :woo: Any answer will do, just being curious...
Most guys who are dead-set on marrying a virgin are so because they can't handle criticism. Grow a f*cking spine. What is so damn special about you that a girl will wait for YOU to come along, not some other guy who is your superior in every way. I know it goes against the whole DJ credo, but its true. There will always be a guy who is better than you, so even though you might really really want to marry a virgin, its not very likely to happen. I think its a little selfish of you to demand that you be her first when she is obviously not your first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Maybe she may just be his first...
:crackup: :crackup:
:crackup: :crackup:"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
I myself am curious why some guys are demanding a virgin bride. Guess what guys, all those girls you've been screwing as a teenager or early on in your life are going to need husbands too. So if you believe you should be allowed to screw before marriage, you can't blame your girl for not being a virgin either.
Afterall, there is a limited supply of girls so you can't have it both ways by screwing a bunch of chicks when you're younger and expecting a virgin later on in life. There isn't two pools of women "The Hors We Screw Now" and "The Virgins for Marriage", there is just one pool of women so if you and your buddies take a dip in it, don't blame the girls!
Afterall, there is a limited supply of girls so you can't have it both ways by screwing a bunch of chicks when you're younger and expecting a virgin later on in life. There isn't two pools of women "The Hors We Screw Now" and "The Virgins for Marriage", there is just one pool of women so if you and your buddies take a dip in it, don't blame the girls!
That's a nice sentiment... but not entirely true. My first (serious) girlfriend was a virgin (so was I, actually), until I remedied thatOriginally posted by frivolousz21
my girlfriend will be 21 in a month and she is a virgin.
and she will never cheat on me after she gives it up to me.
there is no contrary to belief this or that.
when a women is in love with you SHE WONT CHEAT
and no I dont want a HOR!
That didn't stop her from cheating on me though. Even waiting for marriage to have sex doesn't stop some girls from cheating.frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
a women wont cheat on me...
its next to impossible.
then again most of you guys on here..are AFC's and have had terrible expierences with women.
only 1 women in my entire life has broken it off with me..and that was the 1st girl I dated when I was 14.
leave your theories and BS to the people who have actual expierence in life.
when u finally decide to get off ur soapbox and get social..come back and then talk to me.
its next to impossible.
then again most of you guys on here..are AFC's and have had terrible expierences with women.
only 1 women in my entire life has broken it off with me..and that was the 1st girl I dated when I was 14.
leave your theories and BS to the people who have actual expierence in life.
when u finally decide to get off ur soapbox and get social..come back and then talk to me.
If you pick 'em right, and treat 'em like a man should treat a women, they probably won't cheat on you - but it is never a gaurantee.
It's very arrogant of you to assume that you're the only one on this board who's had real life experiences with women. You're still young, and you're not immune to having a 'terrible experience' with women yourself. Get off your own damn soapbox.
It's very arrogant of you to assume that you're the only one on this board who's had real life experiences with women. You're still young, and you're not immune to having a 'terrible experience' with women yourself. Get off your own damn soapbox.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
oh no..im not saying I am the only one...
in all reality it is about 20 percent of us here..who have..
im serious.
and I have had a terrible expierence with a women..fycking relationship sent me to this damn site.
:woo:
the women made me an AFC..after I almost hit her.
yea ive had my share of problems too..
im just saying dont give advice unless u have good expierence to back it up.
if someone asked about dating hot college girls.
I couldnt tell ya ****..I didnt go to a UNI
in all reality it is about 20 percent of us here..who have..
im serious.
and I have had a terrible expierence with a women..fycking relationship sent me to this damn site.
:woo:
the women made me an AFC..after I almost hit her.
yea ive had my share of problems too..
im just saying dont give advice unless u have good expierence to back it up.
if someone asked about dating hot college girls.
I couldnt tell ya ****..I didnt go to a UNI
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: girls in their 20's how many virgins
I serious want to understand the major attraction to virgins. Is it like getting the first slice of a birthday cake or the first person to drive a new car? I truly don't understand especially with how things are nowadays.
Personally, I've had the best sex with non-virgins (no duh). That's not to say that I like pvzzys that were whipped so much that they sound like a flag flapping in the wind, just that it's nice being with someone experienced.
Plus women enjoy a man that's experienced also, but this is coming from women that enjoy me, a self professed Man Wh0re!
Yeah, I saw. But Joe45 started the thread so I was asking him and it seems like he's letting PRL answer for him.Originally posted by djbr
PR_L got banned, for reasons I don't know...
I serious want to understand the major attraction to virgins. Is it like getting the first slice of a birthday cake or the first person to drive a new car? I truly don't understand especially with how things are nowadays.
Personally, I've had the best sex with non-virgins (no duh). That's not to say that I like pvzzys that were whipped so much that they sound like a flag flapping in the wind, just that it's nice being with someone experienced.
Plus women enjoy a man that's experienced also, but this is coming from women that enjoy me, a self professed Man Wh0re!
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Y'know, I just realized something. It seems as if it is mostly young guys (barely 20) that want this type of thing. Not trying to put anyone down, it's just an observation.Originally posted by BrotherAP
That's a nice sentiment... but not entirely true. My first (serious) girlfriend was a virgin (so was I, actually), until I remedied that
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You're going to get flamed for saying that. Trust me, I know...
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
See, told 'ya...
I think it may be virgins (or inexperienced guys) who want that type of thing, and they tend to be younger, if even 20 yet.
In the original post, Joe clearly states that he is a virgin, so that's probably why he's looking for a virgin.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
That makes sense even if it's an assumption. Is Joe45 still a member or what?
"Joe, come out come out where ever you are...."
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
its not that Im looking for a Virgin.
00kevin posted earlier how he believes 1 in 50 women are LTR material
well this one is....and she happens to be a virgin.
I am 22...so how many women 20 to 25 are really LTR material my age???
00kevin posted earlier how he believes 1 in 50 women are LTR material
well this one is....and she happens to be a virgin.
I am 22...so how many women 20 to 25 are really LTR material my age???
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i thought the thread was about virgins and i was gonna say 20 to 25 hahahaha none !!!! ok maybe one !!
however now i see ltr material and i say at least half a dozen if you look for one.
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
frivolousz21, how do you know you havent been cheated on? When women cheat and do it right the guy never finds out. I have female friends who have cheated and their bfs never found out, so you never know if it has happened to you.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.