frivolousz21
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Still wondering here Joe... :woo: Any answer will do, just being curious...Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Just because it doesn't matter to me because I am a "Man wh0re" myself. I just wanted to be enlightened by certain men's affinity for virgins. But it seems as if they can not expound upon it and attempt to divert the question. Oh well, maybe it's why they like virgins, they are to naive to ask questions.
So, back to you Joe, why do you want to marry a virgin?
Maybe she may just be his first...Originally posted by lebRambo
I think its a little selfish of you to demand that you be her first when she is obviously not your first.
PR_L got banned, for reasons I don't know...Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Still wondering here Joe... :woo: Any answer will do, just being curious...
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That's a nice sentiment... but not entirely true. My first (serious) girlfriend was a virgin (so was I, actually), until I remedied thatOriginally posted by frivolousz21
my girlfriend will be 21 in a month and she is a virgin.
and she will never cheat on me after she gives it up to me.
there is no contrary to belief this or that.
when a women is in love with you SHE WONT CHEAT
and no I dont want a HOR!
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yeah, I saw. But Joe45 started the thread so I was asking him and it seems like he's letting PRL answer for him.Originally posted by djbr
PR_L got banned, for reasons I don't know...![]()
Y'know, I just realized something. It seems as if it is mostly young guys (barely 20) that want this type of thing. Not trying to put anyone down, it's just an observation.Originally posted by BrotherAP
That's a nice sentiment... but not entirely true. My first (serious) girlfriend was a virgin (so was I, actually), until I remedied thatThat didn't stop her from cheating on me though. Even waiting for marriage to have sex doesn't stop some girls from cheating.
You're going to get flamed for saying that. Trust me, I know...Originally posted by frivolousz21
a women wont cheat on me...
its next to impossible.
then again most of you guys on here..are AFC's and have had terrible expierences with women.
only 1 women in my entire life has broken it off with me..and that was the 1st girl I dated when I was 14.
leave your theories and BS to the people who have actual expierence in life.
when u finally decide to get off ur soapbox and get social..come back and then talk to me.
See, told 'ya...Originally posted by BrotherAP
If you pick 'em right, and treat 'em like a man should treat a women, they probably won't cheat on you - but it is never a gaurantee.
It's very arrogant of you to assume that you're the only one on this board who's had real life experiences with women. You're still young, and you're not immune to having a 'terrible experience' with women yourself. Get off your own damn soapbox.
I think it may be virgins (or inexperienced guys) who want that type of thing, and they tend to be younger, if even 20 yet.Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Y'know, I just realized something. It seems as if it is mostly young guys (barely 20) that want this type of thing. Not trying to put anyone down, it's just an observation.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That makes sense even if it's an assumption. Is Joe45 still a member or what?Originally posted by BrotherAP
I think it may be virgins (or inexperienced guys) who want that type of thing, and they tend to be younger, if even 20 yet.
In the original post, Joe clearly states that he is a virgin, so that's probably why he's looking for a virgin.
i thought the thread was about virgins and i was gonna say 20 to 25 hahahaha none !!!! ok maybe one !!Originally posted by frivolousz21
its not that Im looking for a Virgin.
00kevin posted earlier how he believes 1 in 50 women are LTR material
well this one is....and she happens to be a virgin.
I am 22...so how many women 20 to 25 are really LTR material my age???
OMG.Originally posted by TheRelic
Contrary to popular belief, theres plenty of hot virgins around 20.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.