frivolousz21
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Still wondering here Joe... :woo: Any answer will do, just being curious...Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Just because it doesn't matter to me because I am a "Man wh0re" myself. I just wanted to be enlightened by certain men's affinity for virgins. But it seems as if they can not expound upon it and attempt to divert the question. Oh well, maybe it's why they like virgins, they are to naive to ask questions.
So, back to you Joe, why do you want to marry a virgin?
Maybe she may just be his first...Originally posted by lebRambo
I think its a little selfish of you to demand that you be her first when she is obviously not your first.
PR_L got banned, for reasons I don't know...Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Still wondering here Joe... :woo: Any answer will do, just being curious...
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That's a nice sentiment... but not entirely true. My first (serious) girlfriend was a virgin (so was I, actually), until I remedied thatOriginally posted by frivolousz21
my girlfriend will be 21 in a month and she is a virgin.
and she will never cheat on me after she gives it up to me.
there is no contrary to belief this or that.
when a women is in love with you SHE WONT CHEAT
and no I dont want a HOR!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yeah, I saw. But Joe45 started the thread so I was asking him and it seems like he's letting PRL answer for him.Originally posted by djbr
PR_L got banned, for reasons I don't know...![]()
Y'know, I just realized something. It seems as if it is mostly young guys (barely 20) that want this type of thing. Not trying to put anyone down, it's just an observation.Originally posted by BrotherAP
That's a nice sentiment... but not entirely true. My first (serious) girlfriend was a virgin (so was I, actually), until I remedied thatThat didn't stop her from cheating on me though. Even waiting for marriage to have sex doesn't stop some girls from cheating.
You're going to get flamed for saying that. Trust me, I know...Originally posted by frivolousz21
a women wont cheat on me...
its next to impossible.
then again most of you guys on here..are AFC's and have had terrible expierences with women.
only 1 women in my entire life has broken it off with me..and that was the 1st girl I dated when I was 14.
leave your theories and BS to the people who have actual expierence in life.
when u finally decide to get off ur soapbox and get social..come back and then talk to me.
See, told 'ya...Originally posted by BrotherAP
If you pick 'em right, and treat 'em like a man should treat a women, they probably won't cheat on you - but it is never a gaurantee.
It's very arrogant of you to assume that you're the only one on this board who's had real life experiences with women. You're still young, and you're not immune to having a 'terrible experience' with women yourself. Get off your own damn soapbox.
I think it may be virgins (or inexperienced guys) who want that type of thing, and they tend to be younger, if even 20 yet.Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Y'know, I just realized something. It seems as if it is mostly young guys (barely 20) that want this type of thing. Not trying to put anyone down, it's just an observation.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
That makes sense even if it's an assumption. Is Joe45 still a member or what?Originally posted by BrotherAP
I think it may be virgins (or inexperienced guys) who want that type of thing, and they tend to be younger, if even 20 yet.
In the original post, Joe clearly states that he is a virgin, so that's probably why he's looking for a virgin.
i thought the thread was about virgins and i was gonna say 20 to 25 hahahaha none !!!! ok maybe one !!Originally posted by frivolousz21
its not that Im looking for a Virgin.
00kevin posted earlier how he believes 1 in 50 women are LTR material
well this one is....and she happens to be a virgin.
I am 22...so how many women 20 to 25 are really LTR material my age???
OMG.Originally posted by TheRelic
Contrary to popular belief, theres plenty of hot virgins around 20.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.