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i really wonder how many ppl % wise -esp the girls lets say in their early to mid 20's in college are even virgins- i bet like none to maybe one in a million. even they shy quite girls i bet aren;t virgin. the ones that say they are -are lying unless they are like diehard every sundays going to church kind of girl. myself being a virgin not by choice but b/c of lack of opportunity. i have explained my situtation in other posts to you guys

i think growing up my parents-my folks raised me as a very sheltered, overprotective child and even today she still does at 24, that is why i was raised keep to urself kind of way .

i really believe that my chance of marrying or having a virgin gf is slim to no way. some girls may say they are but good luck especially if u have money and they girl likes u as a futures husband or bf she might lie to make you like her. i think in reality i just gotta accept it.
 

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basically, ya, you're not going to find a virgin.

There's a chance to find some hot, fine girl in her 20s who's not a religious nutjob and is still a virgin, but ...

you'd probably have better odds of winning the lotto twice in a row than of finding such a woman.
 

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I was a virgin by choice for many many years, being a christian and all. Mind you, I didn't have much success with women in general, so it wasn't all to do with religion, but the point I'm trying to make is that even girls who aren't die-hard religious might still be virgins because of their beliefs.
 

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Originally posted by darthsidious
are you a catholic or some weird african hispanic weirdo?
what the **** does race have to do with this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

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Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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If you find one ship her to me at...

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Will pay high price - COD

I do not accept damaged goods!!!!
 

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My last gf was and she was 20 pretty fine and not a overly religious person. And had she not told me i probably never woulda know or really cared.
 

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My ex was a virgin, hence the EX. Kissed 2 guys in her life. She's kinda weird, but ok looking.

Guaranteed not to put out before marriage. Jake Tested, and Approved.

You want her number PRL?
 

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Originally posted by joe45
...i really believe that my chance of marrying or having a virgin gf is slim to no way. some girls may say they are but good luck especially if u have money and they girl likes u as a futures husband or bf she might lie to make you like her. i think in reality i just gotta accept it.
Why do you want to marry a virgin?
 

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I dated a girl that was 21 and a virgin and a hot blonde. However, this was during my AFC days and I was the nice wussy guy with the whole thing.
 

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Re: Re: girls in their 20's how many virgins

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Why do you want to marry a virgin?
Why do people always ask this question as if something is wrong with marrying a virgin????

The question is "Why do you want to marry a hor?"
 

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Contrary to popular belief, theres plenty of hot virgins around 20.
 

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Being an old over-30 guy I have to laugh at the dude who was a virgin for "many, many" years, and he is 21!

Note: That is a *friendly* laugh :)
 

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it really depends where you live, US europe canada with the western culture of open liberated sexuality, most women lose it before 20 granted

in the east however, most asian girls do tend to keep their virginity until a much later age, some even 25, girls here go for serious and LTR more and doesn't do it until they fully trust and like the man
 

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Re: Re: Re: girls in their 20's how many virgins

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Why do people always ask this question as if something is wrong with marrying a virgin????

The question is "Why do you want to marry a hor?"
Just because it doesn't matter to me because I am a "Man wh0re" myself. I just wanted to be enlightened by certain men's affinity for virgins. But it seems as if they can not expound upon it and attempt to divert the question. Oh well, maybe it's why they like virgins, they are to naive to ask questions.

So, back to you Joe, why do you want to marry a virgin?
 

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Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Depends where you look. Probably NOT a lot of virgin women out there...not a lot of virgin guys either, to tell the truth. Even AFCs get laid occasionally.

The ones who ARE...most of them are probably staying that way until marriage on principle.
 

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I knew two 20 year old girls that were virgins but both had given head numerous times.
 

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Marrying a virgin is next to an impossibility if she';s over 20.

Marrying a virgin is also BEGGING for trouble. VIrgin wives tend to be the ones who cheat the most because they have yet to "experience things."

But, please, be my guest.

FOr myself, sluts only, including my wife of 2 years
 

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my girlfriend will be 21 in a month and she is a virgin.

and she will never cheat on me after she gives it up to me.


there is no contrary to belief this or that.

when a women is in love with you SHE WONT CHEAT :)

and no I dont want a HOR!
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
my girlfriend will be 21 in a month and she is a virgin.
and she will never cheat on me after she gives it up to me.
there is no contrary to belief this or that.
when a women is in love with you SHE WONT CHEAT :)
and no I dont want a HOR!
well once she finds out what she's been missing, i'll be baning that ass, and you'll be crying your self to sleep.:D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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