"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl Says No To Condom

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Just before sex I whip out the condom and the girls says 'No I don't like condom. I want to do it without'. There does not seem any room for negotiation, so what do I do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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well do YOU want to use a condom?
if you don't, then dont use a condom.

if you do, then insist on using a condom. if she says no, then don't have sex with her.
 
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nyc123 said:
well do YOU want to use a condom?
if you don't, then dont use a condom.

if you do, then insist on using a condom. if she says no, then don't have sex with her.
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Well said. I don't see what the problem is.
 
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mangotot said:
Just before sex I whip out the condom and the girls says 'No I don't like condom. I want to do it without'. There does not seem any room for negotiation, so what do I do?
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Theres two reasons a girl wouldn't want to.

1. She's allergic to latex
2. She wants to hook a guy by getting pregnant
 
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Theres two reasons a girl wouldn't want to.

1. She's allergic to latex
2. She wants to hook a guy by getting pregnant
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its usually number 2, tread carefully op
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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3. In the heat of the moment, she just doesn't care.

A lot of chicks will just go with "what feels good" in the heat of the moment. It's crazy, but very common.

Just put the condom on anyway. If she's horny enough, she'll go with that. If she insists on raw and you don't want to, then don't have sex with her.
 
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Open if your okay with knowing that this chick( I'm presuming she isn't your gf) has sex without coondoms then go for it I guess. Just remember you can still get hpv even with a condom on.

I say run before the fumes get you.
 
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Haha, Latin you cracked me up.

Just FYI hpv vacc is available to 45 now. I did it last year.
 
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She is likely ovulating... Her body agenda is screaming "get preggo" ... Put the condom on or get dressed and go home. Unless you want a kid with her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"...too bad toots". Then put it on. If she is aroused she will not care. If she does, who cares.
 
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Repeat post.
 
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Yeah the first guy is right. It's up to you..if you want to wear a condom wear one, if not then don't.

Couple of weeks ago I was in bed with my current HB7 & she seemed fine when I was sticking the tip of my manhood into her...I started to put condom on & then she wouldn't let me fu*k her :s

Over the spring I was seeing a HB7.5. We were having sex regular. She started complaining about me wearing condoms saying it was like fu*king a piece of plastic. She sent me a document via email that was about how a women hardly ever gets pregnant from precum :) (this is the same woman who sent her ex an e-mail telling him to brush his teeth after breakfast) haha

I've also heard a few women say "you dont have to wear it as I'm on the pill. Well i'd rather not wear a condom, but to many dieseases around & I've been having a lot of sex so I like to be safe :)
 
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It may even be that women want the risk because it adds to taboo nature of the act. Russian roulette if you will.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Mike32ct said:
3. In the heat of the moment, she just doesn't care.

A lot of chicks will just go with "what feels good" in the heat of the moment. It's crazy, but very common.

Just put the condom on anyway. If she's horny enough, she'll go with that. If she insists on raw and you don't want to, then don't have sex with her.
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This is the best answer you will get. If you insist then she has no choice but to go along with it.

This happens waaaaaaay more often than you think.
 
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No condom? Awesome...tonsil bang her till your lower back is numb and locks up on you. Give her a chin full of milk and jet on out the door like a thief in a cop's home.
 
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mangotot said:
Just before sex I whip out the condom and the girls says 'No I don't like condom. I want to do it without'. There does not seem any room for negotiation, so what do I do?
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Then you are not a good negotiator. If you can't convince a girl to have sex with a condom, you got bigger problems. No condom "In the moment of passion" is a emotional decision, and we all know how well emotional decisions turn out.
 
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VladPatton said:
No condom? Awesome...tonsil bang her till your lower back is numb and locks up on you. Give her a chin full of milk and jet on out the door like a thief in a cop's home.
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Or tell her " Lube your ass up honey. "
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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