"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl Says No To Condom

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Just before sex I whip out the condom and the girls says 'No I don't like condom. I want to do it without'. There does not seem any room for negotiation, so what do I do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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well do YOU want to use a condom?
if you don't, then dont use a condom.

if you do, then insist on using a condom. if she says no, then don't have sex with her.
 
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nyc123 said:
well do YOU want to use a condom?
if you don't, then dont use a condom.

if you do, then insist on using a condom. if she says no, then don't have sex with her.
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Well said. I don't see what the problem is.
 
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mangotot said:
Just before sex I whip out the condom and the girls says 'No I don't like condom. I want to do it without'. There does not seem any room for negotiation, so what do I do?
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Theres two reasons a girl wouldn't want to.

1. She's allergic to latex
2. She wants to hook a guy by getting pregnant
 
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christoff522 said:
Theres two reasons a girl wouldn't want to.

1. She's allergic to latex
2. She wants to hook a guy by getting pregnant
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its usually number 2, tread carefully op
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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3. In the heat of the moment, she just doesn't care.

A lot of chicks will just go with "what feels good" in the heat of the moment. It's crazy, but very common.

Just put the condom on anyway. If she's horny enough, she'll go with that. If she insists on raw and you don't want to, then don't have sex with her.
 
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Open if your okay with knowing that this chick( I'm presuming she isn't your gf) has sex without coondoms then go for it I guess. Just remember you can still get hpv even with a condom on.

I say run before the fumes get you.
 
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Haha, Latin you cracked me up.

Just FYI hpv vacc is available to 45 now. I did it last year.
 
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She is likely ovulating... Her body agenda is screaming "get preggo" ... Put the condom on or get dressed and go home. Unless you want a kid with her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"...too bad toots". Then put it on. If she is aroused she will not care. If she does, who cares.
 
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Repeat post.
 
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Yeah the first guy is right. It's up to you..if you want to wear a condom wear one, if not then don't.

Couple of weeks ago I was in bed with my current HB7 & she seemed fine when I was sticking the tip of my manhood into her...I started to put condom on & then she wouldn't let me fu*k her :s

Over the spring I was seeing a HB7.5. We were having sex regular. She started complaining about me wearing condoms saying it was like fu*king a piece of plastic. She sent me a document via email that was about how a women hardly ever gets pregnant from precum :) (this is the same woman who sent her ex an e-mail telling him to brush his teeth after breakfast) haha

I've also heard a few women say "you dont have to wear it as I'm on the pill. Well i'd rather not wear a condom, but to many dieseases around & I've been having a lot of sex so I like to be safe :)
 
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It may even be that women want the risk because it adds to taboo nature of the act. Russian roulette if you will.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mike32ct said:
3. In the heat of the moment, she just doesn't care.

A lot of chicks will just go with "what feels good" in the heat of the moment. It's crazy, but very common.

Just put the condom on anyway. If she's horny enough, she'll go with that. If she insists on raw and you don't want to, then don't have sex with her.
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This is the best answer you will get. If you insist then she has no choice but to go along with it.

This happens waaaaaaay more often than you think.
 
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No condom? Awesome...tonsil bang her till your lower back is numb and locks up on you. Give her a chin full of milk and jet on out the door like a thief in a cop's home.
 
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mangotot said:
Just before sex I whip out the condom and the girls says 'No I don't like condom. I want to do it without'. There does not seem any room for negotiation, so what do I do?
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Then you are not a good negotiator. If you can't convince a girl to have sex with a condom, you got bigger problems. No condom "In the moment of passion" is a emotional decision, and we all know how well emotional decisions turn out.
 
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VladPatton said:
No condom? Awesome...tonsil bang her till your lower back is numb and locks up on you. Give her a chin full of milk and jet on out the door like a thief in a cop's home.
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Or tell her " Lube your ass up honey. "
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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