I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She is seeking you to validate her and feed her ego.Why would she do that when she clearly is not ?
My logical explaination is becausr she wants me to convince her of the opposite.
But is this some kind of sh!ttest or red flag ?
I don't know, but agree with her and elaborate that low self-esteem is indeed ugly. Then tell her that the good news is that at least it's cheaper to fix than plastic surgery.Why would she do that when she clearly is not ?
My logical explaination is becausr she wants me to convince her of the opposite.
But is this some kind of sh!ttest or red flag ?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Good man. This is a win.ask her what she thinks is ugly about her self and then use it against her to make fun of her when she pisses you off. win?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Guess it went over your head. I posted that to show how some people don't realize how fortunate they are. I'm pretty sure the girl in question has not been disfigured like the one I posted. And she's probably decent looking. As she could have been unlucky and had an accident or born disfigured or disabled!Mods should take down them nasty @ss pics no one needs to see those.
Guess it went over your head... We get the point, I don't need to see dis figured faces.. I'll gladly ignore you.Guess it went over your head. I posted that to show how some people don't realize how fortunate they are. I'm pretty sure the girl in question has not been disfigured like the one I posted. And she's probably decent looking. As she could have been unlucky and had an accident or born disfigured or disabled!
If you don't like it feel free to ignore both me and the pics!![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She would think you are an old sicko and not right in the head.Then, show her this pic:
The only sick person here is you and you have been reported to the mods for continually harassing me, even though i have you on ignore.She would think you are an old sicko and not right in the head.
In my humble opinion showing a girl those photos would simply demonstrate your obvious LOW VALUE to her.
What kind of man would actually believe showing photos like these with be appropriate in the mating game and inspire any
sort of attraction or comfort.
A man who is used to mixing with degenerates perhaps and meeting women who are homeless and mentally retarded one would think.
Great advice Julian. Get her to confess her insecurities then use them later on when you have a temper tantrum ..ask her what she thinks is ugly about her self and then use it against her to make fun of her when she pisses you off. win?
What? Continually harassing you.....interesting reframe. Didn't you create a thread all about Reykhel threatening him and going onfor continually harassing me
LOLeven though i have you on ignore.
LOL where's your sense of irony? The amount of times you have thrown the faggat card around, your bottom biatches references to other posters who agreed with what I said (speed dawg, john chops are my bottom biatches according to you). Reykhel laughed that off and finally believed that was how you greeted old friends. You've lost your sense of humor lately. Reykhel liked you more when you typed in angry red...You have sent me insulting messages to my inbox, violating forum rules calling me a faggat out of the blue.
LOL Again this coming from the man who created a thread about Reykhel, asked Reykhel to fight on at least three occasions, sent Reykhel private messages asking to fight and asking to take silly betsIts not my fault, you've developed a strange sick fascination with me,
Beethoven had his critics.You really need psychiatric help
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.