She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She is seeking you to validate her and feed her ego.Why would she do that when she clearly is not ?
My logical explaination is becausr she wants me to convince her of the opposite.
But is this some kind of sh!ttest or red flag ?
I don't know, but agree with her and elaborate that low self-esteem is indeed ugly. Then tell her that the good news is that at least it's cheaper to fix than plastic surgery.Why would she do that when she clearly is not ?
My logical explaination is becausr she wants me to convince her of the opposite.
But is this some kind of sh!ttest or red flag ?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Good man. This is a win.ask her what she thinks is ugly about her self and then use it against her to make fun of her when she pisses you off. win?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Guess it went over your head. I posted that to show how some people don't realize how fortunate they are. I'm pretty sure the girl in question has not been disfigured like the one I posted. And she's probably decent looking. As she could have been unlucky and had an accident or born disfigured or disabled!Mods should take down them nasty @ss pics no one needs to see those.
Guess it went over your head... We get the point, I don't need to see dis figured faces.. I'll gladly ignore you.Guess it went over your head. I posted that to show how some people don't realize how fortunate they are. I'm pretty sure the girl in question has not been disfigured like the one I posted. And she's probably decent looking. As she could have been unlucky and had an accident or born disfigured or disabled!
If you don't like it feel free to ignore both me and the pics!![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She would think you are an old sicko and not right in the head.Then, show her this pic:
The only sick person here is you and you have been reported to the mods for continually harassing me, even though i have you on ignore.She would think you are an old sicko and not right in the head.
In my humble opinion showing a girl those photos would simply demonstrate your obvious LOW VALUE to her.
What kind of man would actually believe showing photos like these with be appropriate in the mating game and inspire any
sort of attraction or comfort.
A man who is used to mixing with degenerates perhaps and meeting women who are homeless and mentally retarded one would think.
Great advice Julian. Get her to confess her insecurities then use them later on when you have a temper tantrum ..ask her what she thinks is ugly about her self and then use it against her to make fun of her when she pisses you off. win?
What? Continually harassing you.....interesting reframe. Didn't you create a thread all about Reykhel threatening him and going onfor continually harassing me
LOLeven though i have you on ignore.
LOL where's your sense of irony? The amount of times you have thrown the faggat card around, your bottom biatches references to other posters who agreed with what I said (speed dawg, john chops are my bottom biatches according to you). Reykhel laughed that off and finally believed that was how you greeted old friends. You've lost your sense of humor lately. Reykhel liked you more when you typed in angry red...You have sent me insulting messages to my inbox, violating forum rules calling me a faggat out of the blue.
LOL Again this coming from the man who created a thread about Reykhel, asked Reykhel to fight on at least three occasions, sent Reykhel private messages asking to fight and asking to take silly betsIts not my fault, you've developed a strange sick fascination with me,
Beethoven had his critics.You really need psychiatric help
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.