I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She is seeking you to validate her and feed her ego.Why would she do that when she clearly is not ?
My logical explaination is becausr she wants me to convince her of the opposite.
But is this some kind of sh!ttest or red flag ?
I don't know, but agree with her and elaborate that low self-esteem is indeed ugly. Then tell her that the good news is that at least it's cheaper to fix than plastic surgery.Why would she do that when she clearly is not ?
My logical explaination is becausr she wants me to convince her of the opposite.
But is this some kind of sh!ttest or red flag ?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Good man. This is a win.ask her what she thinks is ugly about her self and then use it against her to make fun of her when she pisses you off. win?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Guess it went over your head. I posted that to show how some people don't realize how fortunate they are. I'm pretty sure the girl in question has not been disfigured like the one I posted. And she's probably decent looking. As she could have been unlucky and had an accident or born disfigured or disabled!Mods should take down them nasty @ss pics no one needs to see those.
Guess it went over your head... We get the point, I don't need to see dis figured faces.. I'll gladly ignore you.Guess it went over your head. I posted that to show how some people don't realize how fortunate they are. I'm pretty sure the girl in question has not been disfigured like the one I posted. And she's probably decent looking. As she could have been unlucky and had an accident or born disfigured or disabled!
If you don't like it feel free to ignore both me and the pics!![]()
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
She would think you are an old sicko and not right in the head.Then, show her this pic:
The only sick person here is you and you have been reported to the mods for continually harassing me, even though i have you on ignore.She would think you are an old sicko and not right in the head.
In my humble opinion showing a girl those photos would simply demonstrate your obvious LOW VALUE to her.
What kind of man would actually believe showing photos like these with be appropriate in the mating game and inspire any
sort of attraction or comfort.
A man who is used to mixing with degenerates perhaps and meeting women who are homeless and mentally retarded one would think.
Great advice Julian. Get her to confess her insecurities then use them later on when you have a temper tantrum ..ask her what she thinks is ugly about her self and then use it against her to make fun of her when she pisses you off. win?
What? Continually harassing you.....interesting reframe. Didn't you create a thread all about Reykhel threatening him and going onfor continually harassing me
LOLeven though i have you on ignore.
LOL where's your sense of irony? The amount of times you have thrown the faggat card around, your bottom biatches references to other posters who agreed with what I said (speed dawg, john chops are my bottom biatches according to you). Reykhel laughed that off and finally believed that was how you greeted old friends. You've lost your sense of humor lately. Reykhel liked you more when you typed in angry red...You have sent me insulting messages to my inbox, violating forum rules calling me a faggat out of the blue.
LOL Again this coming from the man who created a thread about Reykhel, asked Reykhel to fight on at least three occasions, sent Reykhel private messages asking to fight and asking to take silly betsIts not my fault, you've developed a strange sick fascination with me,
Beethoven had his critics.You really need psychiatric help
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.