"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Girl keeps saying she is ugly
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- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
I would have said ... "Eh, you have your days."
She pretty much wants you to jump to her defense and spruce up her fragile little ego. Witch is bullshyt, men are not attention or validation buttons, don't fall for her petty little games.
Don't be a d1ck, but be very aware of her games on you.
Again... "Eh, you have your days." If she was testing me that day I would add "Even Rihanna looks like a hood rat some times.. but most of the times she looks good."
Keep frame and don't let her get you wondering this stuff.
She is seeking you to validate her and feed her ego.
Serenity
Moderator
I don't know, but agree with her and elaborate that low self-esteem is indeed ugly. Then tell her that the good news is that at least it's cheaper to fix than plastic surgery.
If she starts referring to her looks then say "oh, your mirror must be broken".
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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If she continues to mention it, tell her you can't date sometime with such a poor self image, and exit.
That's taxing bull$hit behavior
Desdinova
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Good man. This is a win.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Sho-No-Luv
Senior Don Juan
hahahahahaha
MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
Sho-No-Luv
Senior Don Juan
Guess it went over your head. I posted that to show how some people don't realize how fortunate they are. I'm pretty sure the girl in question has not been disfigured like the one I posted. And she's probably decent looking. As she could have been unlucky and had an accident or born disfigured or disabled!
If you don't like it feel free to ignore both me and the pics!
MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
Guess it went over your head... We get the point, I don't need to see dis figured faces.. I'll gladly ignore you.Guess it went over your head. I posted that to show how some people don't realize how fortunate they are. I'm pretty sure the girl in question has not been disfigured like the one I posted. And she's probably decent looking. As she could have been unlucky and had an accident or born disfigured or disabled!
If you don't like it feel free to ignore both me and the pics!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She would think you are an old sicko and not right in the head.
In my humble opinion showing a girl those photos would simply demonstrate your obvious LOW VALUE to her.
What kind of man would actually believe showing photos like these with be appropriate in the mating game and inspire any
sort of attraction or comfort.
A man who is used to mixing with degenerates perhaps and meeting women who are homeless and mentally retarded one would think.
Sho-No-Luv
Senior Don Juan
The only sick person here is you and you have been reported to the mods for continually harassing me, even though i have you on ignore.
You have sent me insulting messages to my inbox, violating forum rules calling me a faggat out of the blue. I don't even know you and haven't done anything to warrant such abuse. Its not my fault, you've developed a strange sick fascination with me, but like i said please get help.
You really need psychiatric help really bad son!
MODS HERE HE IS AGAIN, HE'S BACK!
Great advice Julian. Get her to confess her insecurities then use them later on when you have a temper tantrum ..
You say my posts are full of sh*t?
What? Continually harassing you.....interesting reframe. Didn't you create a thread all about Reykhel threatening him and going on
a crazy emotion outburst.
LOL
LOL where's your sense of irony? The amount of times you have thrown the faggat card around, your bottom biatches references to other posters who agreed with what I said (speed dawg, john chops are my bottom biatches according to you). Reykhel laughed that off and finally believed that was how you greeted old friends. You've lost your sense of humor lately. Reykhel liked you more when you typed in angry red...
LOL Again this coming from the man who created a thread about Reykhel, asked Reykhel to fight on at least three occasions, sent Reykhel private messages asking to fight and asking to take silly bets
Beethoven had his critics.
An old man crying about insults when all he has done is sling "insults"......here's a collection
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/mc-gregor-v-mayweather.241364/
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.