Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She is seeking you to validate her and feed her ego.Why would she do that when she clearly is not ?
My logical explaination is becausr she wants me to convince her of the opposite.
But is this some kind of sh!ttest or red flag ?
I don't know, but agree with her and elaborate that low self-esteem is indeed ugly. Then tell her that the good news is that at least it's cheaper to fix than plastic surgery.Why would she do that when she clearly is not ?
My logical explaination is becausr she wants me to convince her of the opposite.
But is this some kind of sh!ttest or red flag ?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Good man. This is a win.ask her what she thinks is ugly about her self and then use it against her to make fun of her when she pisses you off. win?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
hahahahahaha
Guess it went over your head. I posted that to show how some people don't realize how fortunate they are. I'm pretty sure the girl in question has not been disfigured like the one I posted. And she's probably decent looking. As she could have been unlucky and had an accident or born disfigured or disabled!Mods should take down them nasty @ss pics no one needs to see those.
Guess it went over your head... We get the point, I don't need to see dis figured faces.. I'll gladly ignore you.Guess it went over your head. I posted that to show how some people don't realize how fortunate they are. I'm pretty sure the girl in question has not been disfigured like the one I posted. And she's probably decent looking. As she could have been unlucky and had an accident or born disfigured or disabled!
If you don't like it feel free to ignore both me and the pics!![]()
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
She would think you are an old sicko and not right in the head.Then, show her this pic:
The only sick person here is you and you have been reported to the mods for continually harassing me, even though i have you on ignore.She would think you are an old sicko and not right in the head.
In my humble opinion showing a girl those photos would simply demonstrate your obvious LOW VALUE to her.
What kind of man would actually believe showing photos like these with be appropriate in the mating game and inspire any
sort of attraction or comfort.
A man who is used to mixing with degenerates perhaps and meeting women who are homeless and mentally retarded one would think.
Great advice Julian. Get her to confess her insecurities then use them later on when you have a temper tantrum ..ask her what she thinks is ugly about her self and then use it against her to make fun of her when she pisses you off. win?
What? Continually harassing you.....interesting reframe. Didn't you create a thread all about Reykhel threatening him and going onfor continually harassing me
LOLeven though i have you on ignore.
LOL where's your sense of irony? The amount of times you have thrown the faggat card around, your bottom biatches references to other posters who agreed with what I said (speed dawg, john chops are my bottom biatches according to you). Reykhel laughed that off and finally believed that was how you greeted old friends. You've lost your sense of humor lately. Reykhel liked you more when you typed in angry red...You have sent me insulting messages to my inbox, violating forum rules calling me a faggat out of the blue.
LOL Again this coming from the man who created a thread about Reykhel, asked Reykhel to fight on at least three occasions, sent Reykhel private messages asking to fight and asking to take silly betsIts not my fault, you've developed a strange sick fascination with me,
Beethoven had his critics.You really need psychiatric help
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.