Girl didn't answer my text message

[Kuwi]

Eh, is this bad? what do I do next? should I call her or am I just setting myself up to get hurt? I don't even know if she's interested in me.

 

[Learningquietly]

hey

I'd wait it out bro. You keep trying to contact her will make you look desperate. Let her get ahold of you.

 

[AKA FLEX]

Text messages don't go through 100% of the time, so there's a small chance your (or her) cell phone provider is the problem, not the girl.

That said, wait a day or two and send her a casual text like "what's on tap for the weekend?" If she blows that one off too, hey, it's Friday -- plenty of women out there for the taking.

 

[kidkurious]

maybe she's too cheap to pay for outgoing txts

 

[Dole]

What about this?
I got this girl's number at the club last week. I called her today and left a voicemail saying, Hey its dole, just called to see what your up to this weekend? Call me back at xxx-xxxx.
An hour later I get a text from her saying:
her:
Hey hows it going?
me:
Good, what are you up to?
her:
Just relaxing you?
me:
Dining at a restaurant called Ceasers. Are you going out this weekend?

No reply from her, this was earlier today around 5pm.
Any advice?

 

[Rhoto]

Kuwi, what did you say and when? You're over analyzing and worrying yourself for no reason.

Dole, personally I find a text reply to a call to be childish. I wouldn't expect much, you've IoIed twice, and she hasn't reciprocated. Wait for her to make a move, but don't wait on her.

 

[Kuwi]

Kuwi, what did you say and when? You're over analyzing and worrying yourself for no reason.

Dole, personally I find a text reply to a call to be childish. I wouldn't expect much, you've IoIed twice, and she hasn't reciprocated. Wait for her to make a move, but don't wait on her.

I said OMG, I just saw something that reminded me of you. I said this at around 2:00 P.M. thursday.

 

[spax]

lol that sounds desperate. u shudnt be thinking of her.

 

[yama600rr]

lol that sounds desperate. u shudnt be thinking of her.

shut the hell up, dont act like you're the man or something. just because he likes someone and shows a little emotion so that makes him desperate. am sick of all the losers on here trying to act like they're the ****. all yall are desperate losers who cant get chicks for sh1t, and that's why you're on here.

 

[ARrocket]

I said OMG, I just saw something that reminded me of you. I said this at around 2:00 P.M. thursday.

That's a pretty interesting text, so she'd be sure to be curious...I'd wait like a week then call her.

And AKA FLEX...the chances that it didn't go through are too slim to even mention, IMO. However, I don't know what it's like in other countries, so maybe I'm wrong.

 

[Mavrick]

shut the hell up, dont act like you're the man or something. just because he likes someone and shows a little emotion so that makes him desperate. am sick of all the losers on here trying to act like they're the ****. all yall are desperate losers who cant get chicks for sh1t, and that's why you're on here.

You may want to listen to him. When you say things, they have an underlining tone to them. What his text is really saying is "Hey, I think about you and now I want a reaction from you". The reason it's desperate is because he could have just told her what it was that reminded him of her. Instead he was seeking a response which is desperate.

Now he's showing us that he needs a response because it's eating him up.

 

[Warrior74]

FIDO.

fvck it. drive on.

 

[Reyaj]

Read my approach journal

These texting games happen to me all the time!

 

[Brandonc662]

Call me back at 4712811.QUOTE]

Did you just give anyone looking at this thread your real phone #?

 

[Dole]

ouch, yeah thats my real # lol fawk
i guess u dont know the area code

 

[OrangeCrusader]

shut the hell up, dont act like you're the man or something. just because he likes someone and shows a little emotion so that makes him desperate. am sick of all the losers on here trying to act like they're the ****. all yall are desperate losers who cant get chicks for sh1t, and that's why you're on here.

Fail. Do you think the OP wants the truth here, or sugarcoated BS? Which helps him out in the end?

Get off your high horse, idiot.

Kuwi, still no reply?

 

[n00bPimp]

I said OMG, I just saw something that reminded me of you. I said this at around 2:00 P.M. thursday.

That txt makes you sound too interested in her. Imagine if she texted you this, I bet you would take it as "cool she thinks about me, so she must liike me" and if you ever hear love songs, a lot of them mention how "everything reminds me of you". So you've given her a very strong IOI right there, might as well have told her you like her.

What to do now:
In the case that she asks you what it is that reminded you of her, tell her you saw this girl who also looked like she didn't care about she looks. Or that you saw someone with a similar crooked smile.
If she doesnt have any contact with you, then you will do the same. You're the man and shes the girl, so if she has any remote interest in you, she will break down first and contact you, because she has less power than you.

 

[MooseGod]

Forget about it, do cool stuff, post it on MySpace, get your own TV show, bang supermodels, whatever. Make her come to you. And if not, still forget about it.

 

[stumped]

To the OP:

Her interest in you is slim to none most likely.


As you get older you learn how to see things for what they are.
Basically, if someone has interest in you, you will know it,
if not, then you get the run around a lot.

Don't let your ego get in the way of the facts. I can tell you
for a fact that girls rarely play hard to get, they are to afraid
you'll walk. Thats what I mean by you will definitely know when
a girl has interest.

 

[daygameguy]

To the OP:

Her interest in you is slim to none most likely.


As you get older you learn how to see things for what they are.
Basically, if someone has interest in you, you will know it,
if not, then you get the run around a lot.

Don't let your ego get in the way of the facts. I can tell you
for a fact that girls rarely play hard to get, they are to afraid
you'll walk. Thats what I mean by you will definitely know when
a girl has interest.

I think that's usually true. If IL is high, you will know it, and she won't let go.. cuz she is curious about you. Else, you will have to run around and persist which also might pay off, but its painful and lame.

Majority of the good looking girls are *****es who play mind games with guys. **** them. They deserve a douche bag who'll **** them and abandon them.