"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Girl asks you when is the last time you got laid?
- Thread starter T-Mack
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
Lol but reading that back its a neg, display of higher value, and its ****y and funny. However, i said that once and got good results...
#41
Senior Don Juan
Her: "When was the last time you got laid?"T-Mack said:
You: "About 20 minutes from now."
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
make eye contact with your smiley "you're up to something" look, and say " It's against my religion."T-Mack said:
This way you don't come off looking like a loser.
If you didn't for awhile then you didn't BS since they can smell when you lie.
They'll be wondering if you're telling the truth or not because of the "you're up to something look."
Also this adds mystery & moral points since they expect most guys to brag or kiss and tell, which doesn't come off well.
and they'll find you strong since you can actually control your d!ck unlike all the other guys that are slaves to it.
Which will want her to see how much her beauty can break you down and she'll try her best to get into your pants.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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Her: When's the last time you had sex?
You: Look, I think I know what this is about, and I'm complimented... but not interested.
Her: Blah blah
You: <Interrupt> I can't sleep with you OK? My head is killing me...
Her: Blah blah
You: <Interrupt> OK, if you just want to fool around or...
it's ****y, and its hilarious!
she'll get a laugh out of it... unlike the rest of these tight wad serious answers i see here.
2.0
Don Juan
I like this one! Not exactly sure how well it would work though, since it's sort of admitting that you'll sleep with her if she wants you to.#41 said:
I don't get this at all...Michele said:
guywhoneedshelp
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drummer
Senior Don Juan
"Look I know you are trying to take advantage of me here but I'm not that kind of guy"
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
More Cowbell Please
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WC2
Master Don Juan
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.