"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Gf says ''I think I don't like you as much as you like me''
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
youngmack
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Mr_Stinky
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Exactly!apprenticedj said:
I thought the first girl I was with was the best thing in the world and I would die without her. I'm still here. And she is literally the worst girl I have had yet. Next this girl and find one who is a) better and b) more into you. You're essentially wasting time remaining in this relationship. You can and will do better once you are out. It's a scary thought to pull the trigger but you'll be more than fine once you do
asid12345678
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First of all , thanks for all the input guys .
I did ignore her for a day , 2nd day she kept calling me every other hour , I was in the library and she called me like 7 times and I just got tired and took the call . She hadn't had food all day and said she wanted to have dinner , so we went to have dinner and talked about this for a while . I made her apologise for this and a couple other things . Later I asked her if she wanted to come to my room , she said yes , and I bust a load in her mouth and again on her tits and she fingered me . And we spent some time together today .Btw , we haven't ****ed yet , cuz she's a virgin and doesn't wanna have sex until marriage , but every now and then , we talk about how we're probably gonna **** before that . Today she was like 'since I'm so horny after my periods , we should **** for one week , every night once my periods are over" . I think we're fine for now .
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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asid12345678
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the_great_gaia
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asid12345678
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haha , it was fun ...but umm...since she's chinese...it was 'kinda' hairy
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Jair213
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No need to nextPokerStar said:
this was all there was need to be said.. then game accordingly..
which makes me think this girl is far from being a virgin, this is pretty advanced for a virgin.
just have fun and enjoy the ride OP, sounds like you have got her juices going
asid12345678
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So ever since , sexually we've gotten pretty far . We rented a motel room the other day and spent 2 hours there . Basically it was the first time she got competent naked for a guy and got her ***** eaten. And ever since she's been wanting her ***** to be eaten every other day . Gave her her first orgasm
.I finger her once in a while. It used to hurt a lot in the beginning but last night she said it's starting to feel good now . Oh and we were 69'img last night and she gave me a rim job . And damn it feels good .
Okay , now my problem is , sometimes she is pretty disrespectful . She says it's because when she gets close to someone she becomes like this . She tells me how she's had physical fights with her mother , smashed her exs phone .But I don't usually argue just like a lot of you suggest , if she says something really *****y or screams at me , I just ignore her for the day or more until I feel she's really sorry . Is this the right way to handle such situations ?
As far as you question is concerned it looks like she needs a soft next http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread....tions-and-answers-to-questions&highlight=soft. I wouldn't even be taking this silly chick seriously in the first place. I hope youre talking to other women
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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