"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Gf says ''I think I don't like you as much as you like me''
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Mr_Stinky
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Exactly!apprenticedj said:
I thought the first girl I was with was the best thing in the world and I would die without her. I'm still here. And she is literally the worst girl I have had yet. Next this girl and find one who is a) better and b) more into you. You're essentially wasting time remaining in this relationship. You can and will do better once you are out. It's a scary thought to pull the trigger but you'll be more than fine once you do
asid12345678
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First of all , thanks for all the input guys .
I did ignore her for a day , 2nd day she kept calling me every other hour , I was in the library and she called me like 7 times and I just got tired and took the call . She hadn't had food all day and said she wanted to have dinner , so we went to have dinner and talked about this for a while . I made her apologise for this and a couple other things . Later I asked her if she wanted to come to my room , she said yes , and I bust a load in her mouth and again on her tits and she fingered me . And we spent some time together today .Btw , we haven't ****ed yet , cuz she's a virgin and doesn't wanna have sex until marriage , but every now and then , we talk about how we're probably gonna **** before that . Today she was like 'since I'm so horny after my periods , we should **** for one week , every night once my periods are over" . I think we're fine for now .
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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the_great_gaia
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haha , it was fun ...but umm...since she's chinese...it was 'kinda' hairy
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Jair213
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No need to nextPokerStar said:
this was all there was need to be said.. then game accordingly..
which makes me think this girl is far from being a virgin, this is pretty advanced for a virgin.
just have fun and enjoy the ride OP, sounds like you have got her juices going
asid12345678
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So ever since , sexually we've gotten pretty far . We rented a motel room the other day and spent 2 hours there . Basically it was the first time she got competent naked for a guy and got her ***** eaten. And ever since she's been wanting her ***** to be eaten every other day . Gave her her first orgasm
.I finger her once in a while. It used to hurt a lot in the beginning but last night she said it's starting to feel good now . Oh and we were 69'img last night and she gave me a rim job . And damn it feels good .
Okay , now my problem is , sometimes she is pretty disrespectful . She says it's because when she gets close to someone she becomes like this . She tells me how she's had physical fights with her mother , smashed her exs phone .But I don't usually argue just like a lot of you suggest , if she says something really *****y or screams at me , I just ignore her for the day or more until I feel she's really sorry . Is this the right way to handle such situations ?
As far as you question is concerned it looks like she needs a soft next http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread....tions-and-answers-to-questions&highlight=soft. I wouldn't even be taking this silly chick seriously in the first place. I hope youre talking to other women
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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