"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Gf says ''I think I don't like you as much as you like me''
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Mr_Stinky
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Exactly!apprenticedj said:
I thought the first girl I was with was the best thing in the world and I would die without her. I'm still here. And she is literally the worst girl I have had yet. Next this girl and find one who is a) better and b) more into you. You're essentially wasting time remaining in this relationship. You can and will do better once you are out. It's a scary thought to pull the trigger but you'll be more than fine once you do
asid12345678
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First of all , thanks for all the input guys .
I did ignore her for a day , 2nd day she kept calling me every other hour , I was in the library and she called me like 7 times and I just got tired and took the call . She hadn't had food all day and said she wanted to have dinner , so we went to have dinner and talked about this for a while . I made her apologise for this and a couple other things . Later I asked her if she wanted to come to my room , she said yes , and I bust a load in her mouth and again on her tits and she fingered me . And we spent some time together today .Btw , we haven't ****ed yet , cuz she's a virgin and doesn't wanna have sex until marriage , but every now and then , we talk about how we're probably gonna **** before that . Today she was like 'since I'm so horny after my periods , we should **** for one week , every night once my periods are over" . I think we're fine for now .
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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the_great_gaia
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haha , it was fun ...but umm...since she's chinese...it was 'kinda' hairy
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Jair213
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No need to nextPokerStar said:
this was all there was need to be said.. then game accordingly..
which makes me think this girl is far from being a virgin, this is pretty advanced for a virgin.
just have fun and enjoy the ride OP, sounds like you have got her juices going
asid12345678
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So ever since , sexually we've gotten pretty far . We rented a motel room the other day and spent 2 hours there . Basically it was the first time she got competent naked for a guy and got her ***** eaten. And ever since she's been wanting her ***** to be eaten every other day . Gave her her first orgasm
.I finger her once in a while. It used to hurt a lot in the beginning but last night she said it's starting to feel good now . Oh and we were 69'img last night and she gave me a rim job . And damn it feels good .
Okay , now my problem is , sometimes she is pretty disrespectful . She says it's because when she gets close to someone she becomes like this . She tells me how she's had physical fights with her mother , smashed her exs phone .But I don't usually argue just like a lot of you suggest , if she says something really *****y or screams at me , I just ignore her for the day or more until I feel she's really sorry . Is this the right way to handle such situations ?
As far as you question is concerned it looks like she needs a soft next http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread....tions-and-answers-to-questions&highlight=soft. I wouldn't even be taking this silly chick seriously in the first place. I hope youre talking to other women
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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