"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Gf says ''I think I don't like you as much as you like me''
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Mr_Stinky
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Exactly!apprenticedj said:
I thought the first girl I was with was the best thing in the world and I would die without her. I'm still here. And she is literally the worst girl I have had yet. Next this girl and find one who is a) better and b) more into you. You're essentially wasting time remaining in this relationship. You can and will do better once you are out. It's a scary thought to pull the trigger but you'll be more than fine once you do
asid12345678
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First of all , thanks for all the input guys .
I did ignore her for a day , 2nd day she kept calling me every other hour , I was in the library and she called me like 7 times and I just got tired and took the call . She hadn't had food all day and said she wanted to have dinner , so we went to have dinner and talked about this for a while . I made her apologise for this and a couple other things . Later I asked her if she wanted to come to my room , she said yes , and I bust a load in her mouth and again on her tits and she fingered me . And we spent some time together today .Btw , we haven't ****ed yet , cuz she's a virgin and doesn't wanna have sex until marriage , but every now and then , we talk about how we're probably gonna **** before that . Today she was like 'since I'm so horny after my periods , we should **** for one week , every night once my periods are over" . I think we're fine for now .
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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the_great_gaia
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asid12345678
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haha , it was fun ...but umm...since she's chinese...it was 'kinda' hairy
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Jair213
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No need to nextPokerStar said:
this was all there was need to be said.. then game accordingly..
which makes me think this girl is far from being a virgin, this is pretty advanced for a virgin.
just have fun and enjoy the ride OP, sounds like you have got her juices going
asid12345678
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So ever since , sexually we've gotten pretty far . We rented a motel room the other day and spent 2 hours there . Basically it was the first time she got competent naked for a guy and got her ***** eaten. And ever since she's been wanting her ***** to be eaten every other day . Gave her her first orgasm
.I finger her once in a while. It used to hurt a lot in the beginning but last night she said it's starting to feel good now . Oh and we were 69'img last night and she gave me a rim job . And damn it feels good .
Okay , now my problem is , sometimes she is pretty disrespectful . She says it's because when she gets close to someone she becomes like this . She tells me how she's had physical fights with her mother , smashed her exs phone .But I don't usually argue just like a lot of you suggest , if she says something really *****y or screams at me , I just ignore her for the day or more until I feel she's really sorry . Is this the right way to handle such situations ?
As far as you question is concerned it looks like she needs a soft next http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread....tions-and-answers-to-questions&highlight=soft. I wouldn't even be taking this silly chick seriously in the first place. I hope youre talking to other women
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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