"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Gf says ''I think I don't like you as much as you like me''
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
youngmack
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Mr_Stinky
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Exactly!apprenticedj said:
I thought the first girl I was with was the best thing in the world and I would die without her. I'm still here. And she is literally the worst girl I have had yet. Next this girl and find one who is a) better and b) more into you. You're essentially wasting time remaining in this relationship. You can and will do better once you are out. It's a scary thought to pull the trigger but you'll be more than fine once you do
asid12345678
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First of all , thanks for all the input guys .
I did ignore her for a day , 2nd day she kept calling me every other hour , I was in the library and she called me like 7 times and I just got tired and took the call . She hadn't had food all day and said she wanted to have dinner , so we went to have dinner and talked about this for a while . I made her apologise for this and a couple other things . Later I asked her if she wanted to come to my room , she said yes , and I bust a load in her mouth and again on her tits and she fingered me . And we spent some time together today .Btw , we haven't ****ed yet , cuz she's a virgin and doesn't wanna have sex until marriage , but every now and then , we talk about how we're probably gonna **** before that . Today she was like 'since I'm so horny after my periods , we should **** for one week , every night once my periods are over" . I think we're fine for now .
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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asid12345678
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the_great_gaia
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haha , it was fun ...but umm...since she's chinese...it was 'kinda' hairy
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Jair213
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No need to nextPokerStar said:
this was all there was need to be said.. then game accordingly..
which makes me think this girl is far from being a virgin, this is pretty advanced for a virgin.
just have fun and enjoy the ride OP, sounds like you have got her juices going
asid12345678
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So ever since , sexually we've gotten pretty far . We rented a motel room the other day and spent 2 hours there . Basically it was the first time she got competent naked for a guy and got her ***** eaten. And ever since she's been wanting her ***** to be eaten every other day . Gave her her first orgasm
.I finger her once in a while. It used to hurt a lot in the beginning but last night she said it's starting to feel good now . Oh and we were 69'img last night and she gave me a rim job . And damn it feels good .
Okay , now my problem is , sometimes she is pretty disrespectful . She says it's because when she gets close to someone she becomes like this . She tells me how she's had physical fights with her mother , smashed her exs phone .But I don't usually argue just like a lot of you suggest , if she says something really *****y or screams at me , I just ignore her for the day or more until I feel she's really sorry . Is this the right way to handle such situations ?
As far as you question is concerned it looks like she needs a soft next http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread....tions-and-answers-to-questions&highlight=soft. I wouldn't even be taking this silly chick seriously in the first place. I hope youre talking to other women
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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