SgtSplacker
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It's a trap.
Stop any commitment and fuuck other women immediately.
Stop any commitment and fuuck other women immediately.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
GF re-adds an ex, harmless curiosity?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
SgtSplacker
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Remember man the only bullets you have in this gun fight is your ability to walk away.
It's Very bad for you. She's now actively looking through more of her past sexual partners and people that may know them socially also. Pretty clear what she's up to. She already has one foot out of your door…
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randalljohnson
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To my knowledge, the platonic friends have no relations to the sexual friends. Could just be a case of her "going through her phone book" no?
logicallefty
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If my GF did that I'd add 3 or 4 of my favorite exes or plates, and start talking to them.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sho-No-Luv
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Ah, don't worry about it, she wont fuuck you over too bad...NAH!!
Whats there to worry about? Toying with your emotions? STDS? Broken heart? Nope.
Your heart can heal. There's penicillin for stds..
Pride, self esteem, respect?
Now there's your problem!!!
randalljohnson
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What do u mean?Ah, don't worry about it, she wont fuuck you over too bad...NAH!!
Whats there to worry about? Toying with your emotions? STDS? Broken heart? Nope.
Your heart can heal. There's penicillin for stds..
Pride, self esteem, respect?
Now there's your problem!!!
Initiatedindenial
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You are just a troll.
randalljohnson
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What in the world are you talking about dude
Thatfeel21
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You make countless threads about your gfs social media activity. Take our advice or go away.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
randalljohnson
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I'm still curious what u meant by this
randalljohnson
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Stop calling me a troll. What's your issue?