SgtSplacker
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It's a trap.
Stop any commitment and fuuck other women immediately.
Stop any commitment and fuuck other women immediately.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
GF re-adds an ex, harmless curiosity?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SgtSplacker
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Remember man the only bullets you have in this gun fight is your ability to walk away.
It's Very bad for you. She's now actively looking through more of her past sexual partners and people that may know them socially also. Pretty clear what she's up to. She already has one foot out of your door…
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randalljohnson
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To my knowledge, the platonic friends have no relations to the sexual friends. Could just be a case of her "going through her phone book" no?
logicallefty
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If my GF did that I'd add 3 or 4 of my favorite exes or plates, and start talking to them.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Sho-No-Luv
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Ah, don't worry about it, she wont fuuck you over too bad...NAH!!
Whats there to worry about? Toying with your emotions? STDS? Broken heart? Nope.
Your heart can heal. There's penicillin for stds..
Pride, self esteem, respect?
Now there's your problem!!!
randalljohnson
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What do u mean?Ah, don't worry about it, she wont fuuck you over too bad...NAH!!
Whats there to worry about? Toying with your emotions? STDS? Broken heart? Nope.
Your heart can heal. There's penicillin for stds..
Pride, self esteem, respect?
Now there's your problem!!!
Initiatedindenial
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You are just a troll.
randalljohnson
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What in the world are you talking about dude
Thatfeel21
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You make countless threads about your gfs social media activity. Take our advice or go away.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
randalljohnson
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I'm still curious what u meant by this
randalljohnson
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Stop calling me a troll. What's your issue?