SgtSplacker
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It's a trap.
Stop any commitment and fuuck other women immediately.
Stop any commitment and fuuck other women immediately.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
GF re-adds an ex, harmless curiosity?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SgtSplacker
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Remember man the only bullets you have in this gun fight is your ability to walk away.
It's Very bad for you. She's now actively looking through more of her past sexual partners and people that may know them socially also. Pretty clear what she's up to. She already has one foot out of your door…
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randalljohnson
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To my knowledge, the platonic friends have no relations to the sexual friends. Could just be a case of her "going through her phone book" no?
logicallefty
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If my GF did that I'd add 3 or 4 of my favorite exes or plates, and start talking to them.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Sho-No-Luv
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Ah, don't worry about it, she wont fuuck you over too bad...NAH!!
Whats there to worry about? Toying with your emotions? STDS? Broken heart? Nope.
Your heart can heal. There's penicillin for stds..
Pride, self esteem, respect?
Now there's your problem!!!
randalljohnson
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What do u mean?Ah, don't worry about it, she wont fuuck you over too bad...NAH!!
Whats there to worry about? Toying with your emotions? STDS? Broken heart? Nope.
Your heart can heal. There's penicillin for stds..
Pride, self esteem, respect?
Now there's your problem!!!
Initiatedindenial
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You are just a troll.
randalljohnson
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What in the world are you talking about dude
Thatfeel21
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You make countless threads about your gfs social media activity. Take our advice or go away.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
randalljohnson
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I'm still curious what u meant by this
randalljohnson
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Stop calling me a troll. What's your issue?