Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Why do guys commit to pond scum?This is about a woman i dated for about 1.5 years. Turned out she f$cked married man in the past. I found out about two occasions, there may be more. The minute I found out, I new I had to drop her, gradually I demoted her to a plate, and eventually had to drop her completely.
Now, at the time I found these things out, I told her what the F did you do married men for? She said that she didn't know that they were married and she found out later on about it. May be it is true, but still this single fact immediately disqualified her as an LTR material for me.
What do you guys think, maybe I was too hard on her? She was hurt by the fact that I was not OK with all of this. But yet she didn't try to hide it either.
I am still angry that this is true.Married men are attractive because it means other women approve of them
Here we go wit the dark red flag!She was in touch with a lot of dudes from her past
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dont even do this.. tell her to **** off.If this woman doesnt respect other people's committed marriage boundaries, she would never respect yours if you married her.
Fvck her and bounce.
That is not true because I was married myself and I didn't see a dramatic rise in SMV because I got married, or any rise at all for that matter during the marriage. If your SMV/LMS is too low then your wife will not respect you and you'll have a bad marriage.Married men are attractive because it means other women approve of them
Women don't have the same moral structure as men because their feelings overrule, landing them in sticky situations which of course is never their fault
Women = Nature
Men= Order
Especialy when you know they are scumWhy do guys commit to pond scum?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Praise the lordThat is not true because I was married myself and I didn't see a dramatic rise in SMV because I got married, or any rise at all for that matter during the marriage. If your SMV/LMS is too low then your wife will not respect you and you'll have a bad marriage.
I have a cousin who is in a bad marriage and he complains allot about his wife beating him up and I can tell you that he is definitely getting allot of women.
Its a glympse of whats is likely gonna happen.I don't want to sound like a devil's advocate but why is it wrong if she had slept with married men before you? Her past has nothing to do with her relationship with you in present. If she slept with married men so what? Haven't married men slept with women outside their relationships? I am not advocating anything but simply saying that it is not a deal breaker in itself. Look at the present. Is she good to you? If so, then enjoy and cherish that. I think we put too much value on rear view mirror ruining what is before us.
Peace!
Seedy character and not caring if she damage the other parties relationships.Its a glympse of whats is likely gonna happen.
It is also a indication of bad judgment and low inhibition. Those character traits dont often change.
The marriage failed badly and ended in divorce so how can you say that without being sarcastic?Praise the lord
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I remember being a kid. A tv show I watched, the protagonist began crushing some guys fiancé. No ****, it was the beginning of the degenerate society we see today. Not surprisingly, the protagonist gets pummeled even on the TV show.Especialy when you know they are scum
I totally agree.Its a glympse of whats is likely gonna happen.
It is also a indication of bad judgment and low inhibition. Those character traits dont often change.
Cousin was getting beaten up. Likely cucked but he had lots of women. Im glad he cared enuf for himself to take on the women.The marriage failed badly and ended in divorce so how can you say that without being sarcastic?
Dont get what you are saying. No he was not popular with the ladies before he met his wife. He was heartbroken by a two timing lady he wanted to date but saw her accidentally with another guy. He cant move out hecause his credit is bad. He would love to leave her if he had the credit abd no children with her.Cousin was getting beaten up. Likely cucked but he had lots of women. Im glad he cared enuf for himself to take on the women.
"And i can tell you he's getting alot of women". So he got the ladies after being cheated?Dont get what you are saying. No he was not popular with the ladies before he met his wife. He was heartbroken by a two timing lady he wanted to date but saw her accidentally with another guy. He cant move out hecause his credit is bad. He would love to leave her if he had the credit abd no children with her.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.