Getting with older women

[Peaks&Valleys]

Here's actress Helen Hunt back in her early 50s.

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Then here's actress Kim Basinger in her early 50s

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You're telling me you don't find either one attractive?

Kim yeah. Helen?

 

[GoodMan32]

Kim yeah. Helen?

Maybe I really am meant to be with an older woman, as I find Helen incredibly sexy in that picture.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Hey, my man, to each his own.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Maybe I really am meant to be with an older woman, as I find Helen incredibly sexy in that picture.

Lolz if you wait it out Leelee will be available.

 

[GoodMan32]

Lolz if you wait it out Leelee will be available.

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Only four years to go.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

@The Duke said after he got his vasectomy, the fact broads could bang him with virtually no pregnancy risk ended up adding to his sexiness factor in their eyes.

I wonder if there's a similar explanation to my preference for older broads (the fact I could bang an older broad with little to no pregnancy risk adds to their sexiness factor in my book)

I've never had a woman ever ask about this and have banged many without condoms and not a single one has ever got pregnant.

My suggestion would be to learn to control your bodily functions better.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Please don't suggest an autist to go barebacking. Pulling out before the chorus isn't a safe method of birth control.

I think he's better off getting snipped.

He doesn't have sex anyway, he should have plenty of time to practice on between

 

[GoodMan32]

Please don't suggest an autist to go barebacking. Pulling out before the chorus isn't a safe method of birth control.

I think he's better off getting snipped.

I knew a man who relied on pulling out. He had 3 kids.

You're right, pulling out isn't effective.

 

[GoodMan32]

He doesn't have sex anyway, he should have plenty of time to practice on between

Umm, I have sex probably 2 dozen times per year.

 

[Solomon]

Most men on here appear to be into younger women.

I am in somewhat of the opposite position. Despite being 32, I prefer women in the 45-65 age range (I might even be willing to go above 65 on a case-by-case basis).

Is there anything different about the approach a man should use when trying to get a woman significantly older than himself?

Also, seeing as a decent chunk of that age range is old enough to be my mom, how do I get past the "I couldn't bring myself to do a bedroom session with a guy young enough to be my son" roadblock that a lot of older women have?

Older women are the easiest to get with especially if you're a younger guy in your 30s
1. Just be in shape
2. Don't be a weirdo

Some older women have high libido and want to have fun. The only thing about older women especially that age range 45-65.
Some of them have insufferable, vapid personalities, due to bitter or jaded life experiences. This is why I prefer to date younger or if around my age she has to not be bitter and jaded.

 

[GoodMan32]

Older women are the easiest to get with especially if you're a younger guy in your 30s
1. Just be in shape
2. Don't be a weirdo

Some older women have high libido and want to have fun. The only thing about older women especially that age range 45-65.
Some of them have insufferable, vapid personalities, due to bitter or jaded life experiences. This is why I prefer to date younger or if around my age she has to not be bitter and jaded.

I'm in pretty good shape (my newly uploaded profile picture is my bicep)

The "don't be a weirdo" part is the challenge for me (seeing as I'm an autist)

 

[GoodMan32]

On the topic of older women:

I've said on the forum before that the last time I had free sex was 3 and a half years ago.

After thinking on it, the last time I had free sex with a woman below 30 (or even a woman below 40 for that matter), however, was 2012. More than a decade ago.

Let that sink in. Ever since I nailed a 22 year old in October 2012, I've had no free sex with any 20-somethings or 30-somethings (only 40-somethings). Perhaps that's a sign I really am meant for older broads.

 

[GoodMan32]

and that you should stop ogling college-age girls and judge their baggy clothes.

The young meat is nice to look at (even if I don't want to get involved with one anymore, baggy pants or not)

I'm glad the 22 year old I got with in October 2012 was wearing yoga pants.

As for the baggy pants on the college girl you're referencing from another thread, here's an analogy: It's been said on this forum that it's a shame when a young guy "ruins" his looks by dressing like a Boomer dad. Couldn't it also be said that it's a shame when a hottie ruins her good looks by wearing baggy pants?

 

[GoodMan32]

The difference, Oh Dense One, is that the clueless man needs fashion advice because he wants to be ogled preferably by attractive women. He'll get some attention from the unattractive women, but nothing he can't handle.
The 'hottie' on the other hand tries not draw lustful looks and makes her unattractive to shallow pervs. She doing a good job of getting her goal by discouraging creepy pervs from approaching her. So she's a success, not a failure.

Umm, this forum is full of men who like to see a nice backside in tight jeans.

I'm pretty sure a lot of men on here would refrain from approaching a broad in baggy pants (no matter how good her looks are)

 

[GoodMan32]

I've made it clear on this forum my pregnency phobia is why I prefer older.

That being said, I recall one poster (I think it might have been @BaronOfHair) suggesting I might seek older broads as a PTSD response to the way my female peers treated me in high school (viewing me as the freak of the school, a freaky creep no girl would possibly want, etc)

I stand by my claim that the pregnancy thing is undoubtedly the primary reason I prefer older.

I'm starting to suspect, however, the PTSD explanation might be a secondary reason I prefer older.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I've made it clear on this forum my pregnency phobia is why I prefer older.

That being said, I recall one poster (I think it might have been @BaronOfHair) suggesting I might seek older broads as a PTSD response to the way my female peers treated me in high school (viewing me as the freak of the school, a freaky creep no girl would possibly want, etc)

The bar for acquiring PTSD has become lower than Sydeney Sweeney's typical neckline these days

 

[GoodMan32]

The bar for acquiring PTSD has become lower than Sydeney Sweeney's typical neckline these days

Obviously I don't compare myself to a soldier who fought in Iraq when I say PTSD.

But when you hear the message "you're a creepy freak no girl would possibly want" all throughout middle school/high school (then, to some degree, in college too), it can tear you down.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Obviously I don't compare myself to a soldier who fought in Iraq when I say PTSD.

But when you hear the message "you're a creepy freak no girl would possibly want" all throughout middle school/high school (then, to some degree, in college too), it can tear you down.

CPTSD (complex ptsd) is the term you're looking for.

 

[GoodMan32]

CPTSD (complex ptsd) is the term you're looking for.

Fair enough. Call it what you want. The point is it might at least partially explain my preference for older broads.

 

[GoodMan32]

Actually, no. C-PTSD does not change your sexual preferences that way.

You don't have PTSD or C-PTSD. You're just autistic, which often comes with weird phobias to justify self-soothing behaviour.

Like a phobia for getting women pregnant is a mental justification for your emotionally autistic mind to your fetish for maternal figures. You feel safe with old women who won't ask you to be a man, but with whom you can be as much as a child as you want to be.

First of all, 45 (the age in which where I'm no longer afraid to insert myself into a woman) isn't old enough to be my mom. A mere 12 years; that's more in older cousin/older sister territory.

Second of all, having a phobia of pregnancy is one thing. But going as far as focusing on post-prime broads to circumvent a pregnancy phobia, that's on an entirely new level. Many men couldn't bring themselves to focus on post-prime broads, no matter how much the man fears pregnancy. Hell, even on this very forum, I hear there used to be an active fellow autist who shared my crippling pregnancy phobia...yet even he (from what I've heard) preferred young broads.

There has to be another factor at play for why I feel no romantic feelings at all toward young broads. Young broads can be nice to look at; no doubt (And I'd love to kiss/fondle a young broad, as well as watch a young broad pee). But the desire to get romantically involved (or have sex) with a young broad? That desire is simply lacking in me.

There's got to be another explanation (besides my pregnancy phobia/ASD) at play to explain my total lack of romantic interest in young broads.

And I already covered why the mommy issues explanation isn't it. Mommy issues wouldn't explain why my preferred minimum age of 45 remains unchanged, even as the age gap between myself and a 45 year old broad narrows.