Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Getting Her To Lose Weight
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You can try the jogging dates, and the healty meal dates, but unless shes into it, you will realize that its time to find a slim girl.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Works wonders...
Then you will be free to find your self a slim girl.
Curious though, why did you get with a fat girl in the first place if you have a problem with her being fat?
Don't ever get with someone in the hope that you will change them!
Chances are if you got with a fat girl - the reason why she is with you is because she is fat and therefore will leave your ass once she gets slim.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Francisco d'Anconia said:Do you guys ever try searching the forum first?
Thats the fun in that......All releative questions have been answered at some point. Its finding them. Plus current and fresh advice is more fun and it creates active posts.....Quite often i have posted what i said a month or so a ago into a fresh post for someone thow.....
Back on topic.....
My bro did this with his girlfriend now fincee. She lost 4 stone for him. Got a column in a mag about it....Some womens mag.
Basically he said he was finding her less attractive and asked her to lose weight. She did it purely for him. Now she is a HB rather than a UG.
Its risky but it worked for my bro.
Taking her down the gym and trying to do it that way.....She will realse. It shows you have a lack of respect to say something and a lack of confidence
Sarge On!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.