"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Getting Her To Lose Weight

Juan_Man

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Does anyone have any tips on getting a girl that you are seeing to lose some weight?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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bob2007

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Just be like hey, I feel like doing XYZ... wanna come? Get her to join you with your athletic activities.
 

Juan_Man

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Does that work? What if the goal is like 20 pounds?
 

rocky_mtn

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Unfortunately, she has to want to lose weight. Suggesting it will get you in trouble.

You can try the jogging dates, and the healty meal dates, but unless shes into it, you will realize that its time to find a slim girl.
 

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Rocky nailed it. She has to want to.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fash

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Try "oi fatty, drop some weight or I'm dropping you!"

Works wonders...

Then you will be free to find your self a slim girl.

Curious though, why did you get with a fat girl in the first place if you have a problem with her being fat?

Don't ever get with someone in the hope that you will change them!
 

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Girls put on weight as a sign of comfort. If they fear loss they will alter their image.
 

d9930380

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It's not a wise idea to get with a fat girl and then get her to loose weight.

Chances are if you got with a fat girl - the reason why she is with you is because she is fat and therefore will leave your ass once she gets slim.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Do you guys ever try searching the forum first?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Do you guys ever try searching the forum first?

Thats the fun in that......All releative questions have been answered at some point. Its finding them. Plus current and fresh advice is more fun and it creates active posts.....Quite often i have posted what i said a month or so a ago into a fresh post for someone thow.....

Back on topic.....

My bro did this with his girlfriend now fincee. She lost 4 stone for him. Got a column in a mag about it....Some womens mag.

Basically he said he was finding her less attractive and asked her to lose weight. She did it purely for him. Now she is a HB rather than a UG.

Its risky but it worked for my bro.


Taking her down the gym and trying to do it that way.....She will realse. It shows you have a lack of respect to say something and a lack of confidence


Sarge On!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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