"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Getting Her To Lose Weight
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You can try the jogging dates, and the healty meal dates, but unless shes into it, you will realize that its time to find a slim girl.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Works wonders...
Then you will be free to find your self a slim girl.
Curious though, why did you get with a fat girl in the first place if you have a problem with her being fat?
Don't ever get with someone in the hope that you will change them!
Chances are if you got with a fat girl - the reason why she is with you is because she is fat and therefore will leave your ass once she gets slim.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Francisco d'Anconia said:Do you guys ever try searching the forum first?
Thats the fun in that......All releative questions have been answered at some point. Its finding them. Plus current and fresh advice is more fun and it creates active posts.....Quite often i have posted what i said a month or so a ago into a fresh post for someone thow.....
Back on topic.....
My bro did this with his girlfriend now fincee. She lost 4 stone for him. Got a column in a mag about it....Some womens mag.
Basically he said he was finding her less attractive and asked her to lose weight. She did it purely for him. Now she is a HB rather than a UG.
Its risky but it worked for my bro.
Taking her down the gym and trying to do it that way.....She will realse. It shows you have a lack of respect to say something and a lack of confidence
Sarge On!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.