"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Getting Her To Lose Weight

Juan_Man

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Does anyone have any tips on getting a girl that you are seeing to lose some weight?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bob2007

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Just be like hey, I feel like doing XYZ... wanna come? Get her to join you with your athletic activities.
 

Juan_Man

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Does that work? What if the goal is like 20 pounds?
 

rocky_mtn

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Unfortunately, she has to want to lose weight. Suggesting it will get you in trouble.

You can try the jogging dates, and the healty meal dates, but unless shes into it, you will realize that its time to find a slim girl.
 

Bonhomme

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Rocky nailed it. She has to want to.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Fash

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Try "oi fatty, drop some weight or I'm dropping you!"

Works wonders...

Then you will be free to find your self a slim girl.

Curious though, why did you get with a fat girl in the first place if you have a problem with her being fat?

Don't ever get with someone in the hope that you will change them!
 

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Girls put on weight as a sign of comfort. If they fear loss they will alter their image.
 

d9930380

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It's not a wise idea to get with a fat girl and then get her to loose weight.

Chances are if you got with a fat girl - the reason why she is with you is because she is fat and therefore will leave your ass once she gets slim.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Do you guys ever try searching the forum first?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Do you guys ever try searching the forum first?

Thats the fun in that......All releative questions have been answered at some point. Its finding them. Plus current and fresh advice is more fun and it creates active posts.....Quite often i have posted what i said a month or so a ago into a fresh post for someone thow.....

Back on topic.....

My bro did this with his girlfriend now fincee. She lost 4 stone for him. Got a column in a mag about it....Some womens mag.

Basically he said he was finding her less attractive and asked her to lose weight. She did it purely for him. Now she is a HB rather than a UG.

Its risky but it worked for my bro.


Taking her down the gym and trying to do it that way.....She will realse. It shows you have a lack of respect to say something and a lack of confidence


Sarge On!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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