"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Getting Her To Lose Weight
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You can try the jogging dates, and the healty meal dates, but unless shes into it, you will realize that its time to find a slim girl.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Works wonders...
Then you will be free to find your self a slim girl.
Curious though, why did you get with a fat girl in the first place if you have a problem with her being fat?
Don't ever get with someone in the hope that you will change them!
Chances are if you got with a fat girl - the reason why she is with you is because she is fat and therefore will leave your ass once she gets slim.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
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Master Don Juan
Francisco d'Anconia said:Do you guys ever try searching the forum first?
Thats the fun in that......All releative questions have been answered at some point. Its finding them. Plus current and fresh advice is more fun and it creates active posts.....Quite often i have posted what i said a month or so a ago into a fresh post for someone thow.....
Back on topic.....
My bro did this with his girlfriend now fincee. She lost 4 stone for him. Got a column in a mag about it....Some womens mag.
Basically he said he was finding her less attractive and asked her to lose weight. She did it purely for him. Now she is a HB rather than a UG.
Its risky but it worked for my bro.
Taking her down the gym and trying to do it that way.....She will realse. It shows you have a lack of respect to say something and a lack of confidence
Sarge On!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.