“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Getting Her To Lose Weight

Juan_Man

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Does anyone have any tips on getting a girl that you are seeing to lose some weight?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bob2007

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Just be like hey, I feel like doing XYZ... wanna come? Get her to join you with your athletic activities.
 

Juan_Man

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Does that work? What if the goal is like 20 pounds?
 

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Unfortunately, she has to want to lose weight. Suggesting it will get you in trouble.

You can try the jogging dates, and the healty meal dates, but unless shes into it, you will realize that its time to find a slim girl.
 

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Rocky nailed it. She has to want to.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Try "oi fatty, drop some weight or I'm dropping you!"

Works wonders...

Then you will be free to find your self a slim girl.

Curious though, why did you get with a fat girl in the first place if you have a problem with her being fat?

Don't ever get with someone in the hope that you will change them!
 

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Girls put on weight as a sign of comfort. If they fear loss they will alter their image.
 

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It's not a wise idea to get with a fat girl and then get her to loose weight.

Chances are if you got with a fat girl - the reason why she is with you is because she is fat and therefore will leave your ass once she gets slim.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Do you guys ever try searching the forum first?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Do you guys ever try searching the forum first?

Thats the fun in that......All releative questions have been answered at some point. Its finding them. Plus current and fresh advice is more fun and it creates active posts.....Quite often i have posted what i said a month or so a ago into a fresh post for someone thow.....

Back on topic.....

My bro did this with his girlfriend now fincee. She lost 4 stone for him. Got a column in a mag about it....Some womens mag.

Basically he said he was finding her less attractive and asked her to lose weight. She did it purely for him. Now she is a HB rather than a UG.

Its risky but it worked for my bro.


Taking her down the gym and trying to do it that way.....She will realse. It shows you have a lack of respect to say something and a lack of confidence


Sarge On!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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