"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Game of Thrones Season 7 (Are you Watching?)

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I never understood, why are they making the seasons shorter now?

I mean understand, all the actors are getting so many hollywood roles now, but still it sucks for the viewers
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I can enjoy the show but still recognize the inherent bias.....im not sure why it seems you cannot?
I don't know how many times I have to tell you, I agree with you, there is bias. The producers have made comments priding themselves on their feminist contributions.

That said, there hasn't been anything that I found offensive. There's nothing inherently wrong with a strong woman character in a story, or a weak male character. One of the funniest things on the show for me is Jorah being in the friendzone. That comes from the book too, though.

You will for ep6
Saw the leak... what an alpha
I've seen some spoilers, so I think I know what you are referring to. I don't want to get into spoilers here though, so I will address it after the show airs.
 

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Let me say it dIfferently....I don't understand why you can't enjoy the show and also accept me making the statements I am without it "killing your buzz".
You were killing the mood, that's all I meant. It's no big deal. You say what you want to say, I got over it.
 

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You will for ep6
Saw the leak... what an alpha
Okay, I saw episode six, and aside for what happened to Viserion, nothing upset me.
I guess you had a problem with either Jon Snow calling Daeneryus for help, or with him agreeing to bend the knee.

Neither bothered me. He was up against thousands of white walkers, and she had the only available air support.
He's also unaware of his own high birth position at this point, and has apparently become convinced that Daeneryus is a force for good, so why not support her?
 

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Okay, I saw episode six, and aside for what happened to Viserion, nothing upset me.
I guess you had a problem with either Jon Snow calling Daeneryus for help, or with him agreeing to bend the knee.

Neither bothered me. He was up against thousands of white walkers, and she had the only available air support.
He's also unaware of his own high birth position at this point, and has apparently become convinced that Daeneryus is a force for good, so why not support her?
The Night King is ALPHA!

No words... just action and results lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Night King is ALPHA!

No words... just action and results lol
whats funny, all these seasons, he has never even muttered a word,lol that was a boss move turning dany dragon into a white walker lol

last night episode has become the best episode in my book, it had me on the edge of my seat.
 

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whats funny, all these seasons, he has never even muttered a word,lol that was a boss move turning dany dragon into a white walker lol

last night episode has become the best episode in my book, it had me on the edge of my seat.
Indeed... The Night King spear moment was GOLD

Also, the way they did it... the Night King waited 2 days before attacking them on the little island... .in short.... makes you wonder if he KNEW the dragons where coming

I already know what will happens next episode.... epic stuff in the waiting.

The night king never said 1 word,... and did the most stuff in the entire serie so far
 

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The Night King is ALPHA!
Ok, sorry, I thought you were talking about some sort of feminist stuff would happen that would upset me.

Speaking of feminism, some of these roles - like Daeneryus, Cersei, Arya, Olenna, and others - these have to be some of the best roles for actresses that have ever been available. And I don't think that's a bad thing.

Also, the way they did it... the Night King waited 2 days before attacking them on the little island... .in short.... makes you wonder if he KNEW the dragons where coming
I've heard this theory - that the Night King has Greensight so he knew the dragons were coming. So what the frick is the Three Eyed Raven doing aside from sitting on his @ss?
 

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I felt bad for the dragon. Hope Melissandre or some other wizard can turn it good again.
 

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Ok, sorry, I thought you were talking about some sort of feminist stuff would happen that would upset me.

Speaking of feminism, some of these roles - like Daeneryus, Cersei, Arya, Olenna, and others - these have to be some of the best roles for actresses that have ever been available. And I don't think that's a bad thing.


I've heard this theory - that the Night King has Greensight so he knew the dragons were coming. So what the frick is the Three Eyed Raven doing aside from sitting on his @ss?
Another bêta but this one with 3 eyes lol

According to some theory.... Bran is the reason every thing is crumbling... Aegon the mad King, the white walker, the wall, etc... a timeloop
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Loved the Night King...hoping Bran wargs into a Dragon eventually.

Is Arya the waif? She sure seems like it.
 
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I read that one. That Bran was the one trying to stop the mad king before this all happened, but all he heard were whispers which drove him mad.
Sort of like how he turned Hodor into Hodor, very interesting idea.
 

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Bran is a giant mindf*ck all by himself, when he met the old three eyed raven, was he actually meeting his future self.....

and if he was meeting his future self.............then it is freaky that the old future of himself was expecting his young self.

and why is no one talking about ned stark brother who came in and save jon snow?
 

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Bran is a giant mindf*ck all by himself, when he met the old three eyed raven, was he actually meeting his future self.....

and if he was meeting his future self.............then it is freaky that the old future of himself was expecting his young self.

and why is no one talking about ned stark brother who came in and save jon snow?
About Brandon... or the undead uncle aka Cold Hand in the books. (might not be him actually in the Books lol)...

I thought it was fairy tale normal writing... nothing really surprising there... Its just that how it played off that made be ''wonder''.

In short, in 6 years, he had 5 minutes of screen time, only to finish like that.

It was epic but quite fast
 

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they never did break down what cold hands was, was he part white walker yet still human?

Also, I love how little fingers is still playing puppet master with the stark sisters
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Also, I love how little fingers is still playing puppet master with the stark sisters
I really think that is going to be the death of him.
I could then see Littlefinger showing up in King's Landing, killing Cersei, and taking off his face to reveal it is really Arya.
 

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they never did break down what cold hands was, was he part white walker yet still human?

Also, I love how little fingers is still playing puppet master with the stark sisters
Cold Hand is in the books

He's likely an ''other'' but in the book its never shown either.... his role is yet to be determine

About Little Finger... Chaos is a ladder
 

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got is full of hot women, even the big giant knight lady (Brienne) can get it
 

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got is full of hot women, even the big giant knight lady (Brienne) can get it
She has buck teeth in the books.
I've never been one for tall women anyway.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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