"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Game of Thrones Season 7 (Are you Watching?)

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I never understood, why are they making the seasons shorter now?

I mean understand, all the actors are getting so many hollywood roles now, but still it sucks for the viewers
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I can enjoy the show but still recognize the inherent bias.....im not sure why it seems you cannot?
I don't know how many times I have to tell you, I agree with you, there is bias. The producers have made comments priding themselves on their feminist contributions.

That said, there hasn't been anything that I found offensive. There's nothing inherently wrong with a strong woman character in a story, or a weak male character. One of the funniest things on the show for me is Jorah being in the friendzone. That comes from the book too, though.

You will for ep6
Saw the leak... what an alpha
I've seen some spoilers, so I think I know what you are referring to. I don't want to get into spoilers here though, so I will address it after the show airs.
 

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Let me say it dIfferently....I don't understand why you can't enjoy the show and also accept me making the statements I am without it "killing your buzz".
You were killing the mood, that's all I meant. It's no big deal. You say what you want to say, I got over it.
 

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You will for ep6
Saw the leak... what an alpha
Okay, I saw episode six, and aside for what happened to Viserion, nothing upset me.
I guess you had a problem with either Jon Snow calling Daeneryus for help, or with him agreeing to bend the knee.

Neither bothered me. He was up against thousands of white walkers, and she had the only available air support.
He's also unaware of his own high birth position at this point, and has apparently become convinced that Daeneryus is a force for good, so why not support her?
 

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Okay, I saw episode six, and aside for what happened to Viserion, nothing upset me.
I guess you had a problem with either Jon Snow calling Daeneryus for help, or with him agreeing to bend the knee.

Neither bothered me. He was up against thousands of white walkers, and she had the only available air support.
He's also unaware of his own high birth position at this point, and has apparently become convinced that Daeneryus is a force for good, so why not support her?
The Night King is ALPHA!

No words... just action and results lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Night King is ALPHA!

No words... just action and results lol
whats funny, all these seasons, he has never even muttered a word,lol that was a boss move turning dany dragon into a white walker lol

last night episode has become the best episode in my book, it had me on the edge of my seat.
 

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whats funny, all these seasons, he has never even muttered a word,lol that was a boss move turning dany dragon into a white walker lol

last night episode has become the best episode in my book, it had me on the edge of my seat.
Indeed... The Night King spear moment was GOLD

Also, the way they did it... the Night King waited 2 days before attacking them on the little island... .in short.... makes you wonder if he KNEW the dragons where coming

I already know what will happens next episode.... epic stuff in the waiting.

The night king never said 1 word,... and did the most stuff in the entire serie so far
 

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The Night King is ALPHA!
Ok, sorry, I thought you were talking about some sort of feminist stuff would happen that would upset me.

Speaking of feminism, some of these roles - like Daeneryus, Cersei, Arya, Olenna, and others - these have to be some of the best roles for actresses that have ever been available. And I don't think that's a bad thing.

Also, the way they did it... the Night King waited 2 days before attacking them on the little island... .in short.... makes you wonder if he KNEW the dragons where coming
I've heard this theory - that the Night King has Greensight so he knew the dragons were coming. So what the frick is the Three Eyed Raven doing aside from sitting on his @ss?
 

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I felt bad for the dragon. Hope Melissandre or some other wizard can turn it good again.
 

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Ok, sorry, I thought you were talking about some sort of feminist stuff would happen that would upset me.

Speaking of feminism, some of these roles - like Daeneryus, Cersei, Arya, Olenna, and others - these have to be some of the best roles for actresses that have ever been available. And I don't think that's a bad thing.


I've heard this theory - that the Night King has Greensight so he knew the dragons were coming. So what the frick is the Three Eyed Raven doing aside from sitting on his @ss?
Another bêta but this one with 3 eyes lol

According to some theory.... Bran is the reason every thing is crumbling... Aegon the mad King, the white walker, the wall, etc... a timeloop
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Loved the Night King...hoping Bran wargs into a Dragon eventually.

Is Arya the waif? She sure seems like it.
 
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I read that one. That Bran was the one trying to stop the mad king before this all happened, but all he heard were whispers which drove him mad.
Sort of like how he turned Hodor into Hodor, very interesting idea.
 

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Bran is a giant mindf*ck all by himself, when he met the old three eyed raven, was he actually meeting his future self.....

and if he was meeting his future self.............then it is freaky that the old future of himself was expecting his young self.

and why is no one talking about ned stark brother who came in and save jon snow?
 

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Bran is a giant mindf*ck all by himself, when he met the old three eyed raven, was he actually meeting his future self.....

and if he was meeting his future self.............then it is freaky that the old future of himself was expecting his young self.

and why is no one talking about ned stark brother who came in and save jon snow?
About Brandon... or the undead uncle aka Cold Hand in the books. (might not be him actually in the Books lol)...

I thought it was fairy tale normal writing... nothing really surprising there... Its just that how it played off that made be ''wonder''.

In short, in 6 years, he had 5 minutes of screen time, only to finish like that.

It was epic but quite fast
 

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they never did break down what cold hands was, was he part white walker yet still human?

Also, I love how little fingers is still playing puppet master with the stark sisters
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Also, I love how little fingers is still playing puppet master with the stark sisters
I really think that is going to be the death of him.
I could then see Littlefinger showing up in King's Landing, killing Cersei, and taking off his face to reveal it is really Arya.
 

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they never did break down what cold hands was, was he part white walker yet still human?

Also, I love how little fingers is still playing puppet master with the stark sisters
Cold Hand is in the books

He's likely an ''other'' but in the book its never shown either.... his role is yet to be determine

About Little Finger... Chaos is a ladder
 

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got is full of hot women, even the big giant knight lady (Brienne) can get it
 

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got is full of hot women, even the big giant knight lady (Brienne) can get it
She has buck teeth in the books.
I've never been one for tall women anyway.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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