FWB & Boundaries

[ritapita20]

So fellas, how do you guys feel about pet names?

My FWB calls me babe. Sometimes he'll text me "hey babe". Also, he'll say things like "I wish you were here" or like yesterday "I hope you're having a good day". Now I know this may just be him trying to butter me up lol but doesn't this seem to cross the fwb boundaries? Should I tell him to relax with what I deem to be mushy talk or is this how fwb is supposed to go? This is my first time having one so I just want to make sure the boundaries are clear....

 

[blind_one]

''He'' ----> I assume you are a female, yet sometimes , same rules apply regardless of gender.

Actions not words.

You want to keep it strictly FWB, then keep it up that way.

If he wants something more, then it is up to you.

 

[Tictac]

The 'woman' icon on her profile may be a clue!

 

[mrgoodstuff]

So fellas, how do you guys feel about pet names?

My FWB calls me babe. Sometimes he'll text me "hey babe". Also, he'll say things like "I wish you were here" or like yesterday "I hope you're having a good day". Now I know this may just be him trying to butter me up lol but doesn't this seem to cross the fwb boundaries? Should I tell him to relax with what I deem to be mushy talk or is this how fwb is supposed to go? This is my first time having one so I just want to make sure the boundaries are clear....

Some people "flirt" like that saying "babe". It's a complement anyways. I'd say not to overthink it. Part of the sex is verbal communication and buttering someone up or making them feel good.

 

[dustmuffin]

Can't you ask one of your gfs?

 

[ritapita20]

Can't you ask one of your gfs?

nope. they've never done fwb.

 

[marmel75]

nope. they've never done fwb.

What you should know about FWB is that inevitably one person always wants more. In this case it appears to be him. If that's not what you want, let him know the only communication that needs to take place is when one of you wants to fvck.

I'm assuming you must like the way he lays the pipe, so let him know you have a good time with him but that's all you want right now.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

What you should know about FWB is that inevitably one person always wants more. In this case it appears to be him. If that's not what you want, let him know the only communication that needs to take place is when one of you wants to fvck.

I'm assuming you must like the way he lays the pipe, so let him know you have a good time with him but that's all you want right now.

I think she will fvck up his flow if she doesn't let him call her "babe". It's not a big deal, a bunch of people flirt like that with people they are friends with, or won't ever screw. Just enjoy the attention and make him remember it's FWB.

 

[grayclif]

Him: hey babe
You: hey fvck buddy

 

[logicallefty]

Yeah he crosses FWB boundaries with his sap comments. So make your thread more interesting and tell us how that affects your attraction to him?