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So fellas, how do you guys feel about pet names?

My FWB calls me babe. Sometimes he'll text me "hey babe". Also, he'll say things like "I wish you were here" or like yesterday "I hope you're having a good day". Now I know this may just be him trying to butter me up lol but doesn't this seem to cross the fwb boundaries? Should I tell him to relax with what I deem to be mushy talk or is this how fwb is supposed to go? This is my first time having one so I just want to make sure the boundaries are clear....
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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''He'' ----> I assume you are a female, yet sometimes , same rules apply regardless of gender.

Actions not words.

You want to keep it strictly FWB, then keep it up that way.

If he wants something more, then it is up to you.
 
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ritapita20 said:
So fellas, how do you guys feel about pet names?

My FWB calls me babe. Sometimes he'll text me "hey babe". Also, he'll say things like "I wish you were here" or like yesterday "I hope you're having a good day". Now I know this may just be him trying to butter me up lol but doesn't this seem to cross the fwb boundaries? Should I tell him to relax with what I deem to be mushy talk or is this how fwb is supposed to go? This is my first time having one so I just want to make sure the boundaries are clear....
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Some people "flirt" like that saying "babe". It's a complement anyways. I'd say not to overthink it. Part of the sex is verbal communication and buttering someone up or making them feel good.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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ritapita20 said:
nope. they've never done fwb.
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What you should know about FWB is that inevitably one person always wants more. In this case it appears to be him. If that's not what you want, let him know the only communication that needs to take place is when one of you wants to fvck.

I'm assuming you must like the way he lays the pipe, so let him know you have a good time with him but that's all you want right now.
 
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marmel75 said:
What you should know about FWB is that inevitably one person always wants more. In this case it appears to be him. If that's not what you want, let him know the only communication that needs to take place is when one of you wants to fvck.

I'm assuming you must like the way he lays the pipe, so let him know you have a good time with him but that's all you want right now.
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I think she will fvck up his flow if she doesn't let him call her "babe". It's not a big deal, a bunch of people flirt like that with people they are friends with, or won't ever screw. Just enjoy the attention and make him remember it's FWB.
 
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Yeah he crosses FWB boundaries with his sap comments. So make your thread more interesting and tell us how that affects your attraction to him?
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

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