Friendzoned me after we already banged, saying she doesn't want to get emotionally attached to me because her ex is in her life

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you know, I cant quite put my finger on something........
 

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you mean she doesn't want to bang you...
it also depends how long she was with her ex and how the split went, wouldn't deal with this kind of chicks, also bro... get more info?
 

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you mean she doesn't want to bang you...
it also depends how long she was with her ex and how the split went, wouldn't deal with this kind of chicks, also bro... get more info?
They dated a long time, she got to know his family, now she's emotionally attached to him but isn't banging him, he calls her every day and uses her for emotional support etc.

She lets me touch her, kiss her, just doesn't let me bang again because of emotions or whatever.
 
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Eject, next !!!!
She is using you to.make herself feel better.
Not banging anymore what are you getting out of this?
Nothing. Except blue balls
 

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Eject, next !!!!
She is using you to.make herself feel better.
Not banging anymore what are you getting out of this?
Nothing. Except blue balls
I’m pretty much going no contact, but we have a lot of mutual friends.

Why doesn’t she want to bang though? Will distancing myself change things ?
 

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She doesn't want to bang simply because her interest level is low and 'cause she's bangin the ex hahah
 

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I’m pretty much going no contact, but we have a lot of mutual friends.

Why doesn’t she want to bang though? Will distancing myself change things ?
She does not deserve your attention, she is a time waster.
Bad behavior aka teasing you should not be rewarded with more attention/validation.
 
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was you that bad on bed?

I would just say "who said anything about feelings?"
 

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All I’m saying is, should I just distance myself and not contact her? Will that get results ?
 

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Sometimes a lady just isn't that into you. It usually involves another guy(s). Happens to the best of us.

Move on and find someone else, as others here suggest.
 

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so you want to know what the emotional push pull strategy is such that she eventually wants to fvck you
 
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You should not waste time on a women that does not want to bang.

You should always have the mindset, im not banging her so im getting more and more bored with her.

And what you do when she is not amusing/entertaining you in that way is you slowly lose interest in her

You dont do this in a overt/butt hurt way but just as a fact that her presence is starting to bore you so you dont waste time on her.

This might or might not spike her interest, but in this situation its the best cpurse of action regatdless of result.
 
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