"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Friendzone

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

synecdoche

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 22, 2019
Messages
111
Reaction score
81
I think the only realistic way to ever get out the friendzone is to have no contact for a couple of years and improve your SMV. And then accidentally bump into eachother, not you contacting her via social media.
 

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,586
Reaction score
11,948
Location
DFW, TX
Have anybody ever gotten out the friendzoned and how?
She has to see you in a different light. The way it's done is move on without her, get a new women or women(s) plural. If and when she comes snooping around she will see you sexually valued and she will see the different light. It's up to her to pursue you.

As usual never do these things "to get her" or "get her back". You do it for yourself because your life needs it.
 

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,586
Reaction score
11,948
Location
DFW, TX
She has to see you in a different light. The way it's done is move on without her, get a new women or women(s) plural. If and when she comes snooping around she will see you sexually valued and she will see the different light. It's up to her to pursue you.

As usual never do these things "to get her" or "get her back". You do it for yourself because your life needs it.
Dude they WILL come back around, even if just to FVCK up your shyt that you have going on. Women like to try to keep you at a level the initially saw you at. They will try to force it by fvcking up your affairs.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

1

151674

Guest
Dude they WILL come back around, even if just to FVCK up your shyt that you have going on. Women like to try to keep you at a level the initially saw you at. They will try to force it by fvcking up your affairs.
I noticed they get pissed when you walk away
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Robert28

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 27, 2008
Messages
5,027
Reaction score
5,356
Here’s the thing I learned. If you ever DO get out of it, you won’t be interested in her by then anyways. A new girl comes along and all your attention goes to her. Before you know it you can’t even remember old girls name. Then by the time you see her again, you probably won’t be nearly ass attracted to her as you once were. That’s when she might pursue you but you’ve lost all interest.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,586
Reaction score
11,948
Location
DFW, TX
Women like trying to use men nope if im not ****ing then its ignoring time
They drain your "sexual attraction energy" and store that, they feed that to whomever they open their body to, in return they return you a "gay sexually harmless male" type energy for hanging around.
 

7onriverI f

Banned
Joined
Jan 31, 2020
Messages
604
Reaction score
288
They drain your "sexual attraction energy" and store that, they feed that to whomever they open their body to, in return they return you a "gay sexually harmless male" type energy for hanging around.
You must really be doing something wrong dude or reading a ton of books on this topic since your a expert in getting girls to be friends with you. I have one female friend who wants me to her boyfriend and to **** her as well. Even though she says we ain't going to **** but 2 days later shes playing with herself and sending me boob pics.

I don't have a clue on how to get out of the friendzone since I have really never been there.
 

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,586
Reaction score
11,948
Location
DFW, TX
You must really be doing something wrong dude or reading a ton of books on this topic since your a expert in getting girls to be friends with you. I have one female friend who wants me to her boyfriend and to **** her as well. Even though she says we ain't going to **** but 2 days later shes playing with herself and sending me boob pics.

I don't have a clue on how to get out of the friendzone since I have really never been there.
I've done both.

Trust me on the "energy" it's not about reading books. I'm real sensitive about my energy. While peoples image of us shouldn't be the image we use for ourselves, if we keep hanging around ones who have a poor image of us, that image will start to take precedent in our mind. It's important to hang with and be with females who see you as a sexually attractive male. That energy will be strengthened in you thru external validation. Internal validation is very important to. They both work together to make your swag.

That female friend of yours likes teasing you. Now what would be worse if she flipped it. She teased boyfriend and fvck the shyt out of her "friend" who hangs on the side. Teasing you likely excites her, makes her feel more sexual and in turn she shares it with her man or another man.
 

7onriverI f

Banned
Joined
Jan 31, 2020
Messages
604
Reaction score
288
I've done both.

Trust me on the "energy" it's not about reading books. I'm real sensitive about my energy. While peoples image of us shouldn't be the image we use for ourselves, if we keep hanging around ones who have a poor image of us, that image will start to take precedent in our mind. It's important to hang with and be with females who see you as a sexually attractive male. That energy will be strengthened in you thru external validation. Internal validation is very important to. They both work together to make your swag.

That female friend of yours likes teasing you. Now what would be worse if she flipped it. She teased boyfriend and fvck the shyt out of her "friend" who hangs on the side. Teasing you likely excites her, makes her feel more sexual and in turn she shares it with her man or another man.
Lol the chick I'm talking to is ****ing multiple men. She hasn't got a boyfriend. Your right she is constantly teasing me. Just like just about every chick i've come across.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Top