1
151674
Guest
Have anybody ever gotten out the friendzoned and how?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
synecdoche
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 22, 2019
- Messages
- 111
- Reaction score
- 81
I think the only realistic way to ever get out the friendzone is to have no contact for a couple of years and improve your SMV. And then accidentally bump into eachother, not you contacting her via social media.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
She has to see you in a different light. The way it's done is move on without her, get a new women or women(s) plural. If and when she comes snooping around she will see you sexually valued and she will see the different light. It's up to her to pursue you.
As usual never do these things "to get her" or "get her back". You do it for yourself because your life needs it.
7onriverI f
Banned
- Joined
- Jan 31, 2020
- Messages
- 604
- Reaction score
- 288
I think the better question is who's liked me on tinder?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Dude they WILL come back around, even if just to FVCK up your shyt that you have going on. Women like to try to keep you at a level the initially saw you at. They will try to force it by fvcking up your affairs.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
7onriverI f
Banned
- Joined
- Jan 31, 2020
- Messages
- 604
- Reaction score
- 288
Just tell her shes hot and you wanna play with her.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
If she's not fvcking he's supposed to ignore her and "talk" to whomever is sharing her body with him.
7onriverI f
Banned
- Joined
- Jan 31, 2020
- Messages
- 604
- Reaction score
- 288
No he should be trolling as many girls as possible while posing shirtless on pics on tinder..
1
151674
Guest
I noticed they get pissed when you walk away
1
151674
Guest
Women like trying to use men nope if im not ****ing then its ignoring time
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Here’s the thing I learned. If you ever DO get out of it, you won’t be interested in her by then anyways. A new girl comes along and all your attention goes to her. Before you know it you can’t even remember old girls name. Then by the time you see her again, you probably won’t be nearly ass attracted to her as you once were. That’s when she might pursue you but you’ve lost all interest.
7onriverI f
Banned
- Joined
- Jan 31, 2020
- Messages
- 604
- Reaction score
- 288
Ah bro just tell her you hired a hooker and will talk to her at another time.
7onriverI f
Banned
- Joined
- Jan 31, 2020
- Messages
- 604
- Reaction score
- 288
are you at home jerking off to her pics dude?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
They get more pizzed and competitive when you are fvcking another.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Don't do that or jerk off to porn, it backs up up quite a bit. Fvck live babes who desire to suck and fvck you.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
String em along, dangle carrots, etc just like the hot 9 and 10's do guys.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
They drain your "sexual attraction energy" and store that, they feed that to whomever they open their body to, in return they return you a "gay sexually harmless male" type energy for hanging around.
7onriverI f
Banned
- Joined
- Jan 31, 2020
- Messages
- 604
- Reaction score
- 288
You must really be doing something wrong dude or reading a ton of books on this topic since your a expert in getting girls to be friends with you. I have one female friend who wants me to her boyfriend and to **** her as well. Even though she says we ain't going to **** but 2 days later shes playing with herself and sending me boob pics.
I don't have a clue on how to get out of the friendzone since I have really never been there.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I've done both.
Trust me on the "energy" it's not about reading books. I'm real sensitive about my energy. While peoples image of us shouldn't be the image we use for ourselves, if we keep hanging around ones who have a poor image of us, that image will start to take precedent in our mind. It's important to hang with and be with females who see you as a sexually attractive male. That energy will be strengthened in you thru external validation. Internal validation is very important to. They both work together to make your swag.
That female friend of yours likes teasing you. Now what would be worse if she flipped it. She teased boyfriend and fvck the shyt out of her "friend" who hangs on the side. Teasing you likely excites her, makes her feel more sexual and in turn she shares it with her man or another man.
7onriverI f
Banned
- Joined
- Jan 31, 2020
- Messages
- 604
- Reaction score
- 288
Lol the chick I'm talking to is ****ing multiple men. She hasn't got a boyfriend. Your right she is constantly teasing me. Just like just about every chick i've come across.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.