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Have anybody ever gotten out the friendzoned and how?
"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
synecdoche
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I think the only realistic way to ever get out the friendzone is to have no contact for a couple of years and improve your SMV. And then accidentally bump into eachother, not you contacting her via social media.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
She has to see you in a different light. The way it's done is move on without her, get a new women or women(s) plural. If and when she comes snooping around she will see you sexually valued and she will see the different light. It's up to her to pursue you.
As usual never do these things "to get her" or "get her back". You do it for yourself because your life needs it.
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I think the better question is who's liked me on tinder?
mrgoodstuff
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Dude they WILL come back around, even if just to FVCK up your shyt that you have going on. Women like to try to keep you at a level the initially saw you at. They will try to force it by fvcking up your affairs.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Just tell her shes hot and you wanna play with her.
mrgoodstuff
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If she's not fvcking he's supposed to ignore her and "talk" to whomever is sharing her body with him.
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No he should be trolling as many girls as possible while posing shirtless on pics on tinder..
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I noticed they get pissed when you walk away
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Women like trying to use men nope if im not ****ing then its ignoring time
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Here’s the thing I learned. If you ever DO get out of it, you won’t be interested in her by then anyways. A new girl comes along and all your attention goes to her. Before you know it you can’t even remember old girls name. Then by the time you see her again, you probably won’t be nearly ass attracted to her as you once were. That’s when she might pursue you but you’ve lost all interest.
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Ah bro just tell her you hired a hooker and will talk to her at another time.
7onriverI f
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are you at home jerking off to her pics dude?
mrgoodstuff
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They get more pizzed and competitive when you are fvcking another.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Don't do that or jerk off to porn, it backs up up quite a bit. Fvck live babes who desire to suck and fvck you.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
String em along, dangle carrots, etc just like the hot 9 and 10's do guys.
mrgoodstuff
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They drain your "sexual attraction energy" and store that, they feed that to whomever they open their body to, in return they return you a "gay sexually harmless male" type energy for hanging around.
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You must really be doing something wrong dude or reading a ton of books on this topic since your a expert in getting girls to be friends with you. I have one female friend who wants me to her boyfriend and to **** her as well. Even though she says we ain't going to **** but 2 days later shes playing with herself and sending me boob pics.
I don't have a clue on how to get out of the friendzone since I have really never been there.
mrgoodstuff
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I've done both.
Trust me on the "energy" it's not about reading books. I'm real sensitive about my energy. While peoples image of us shouldn't be the image we use for ourselves, if we keep hanging around ones who have a poor image of us, that image will start to take precedent in our mind. It's important to hang with and be with females who see you as a sexually attractive male. That energy will be strengthened in you thru external validation. Internal validation is very important to. They both work together to make your swag.
That female friend of yours likes teasing you. Now what would be worse if she flipped it. She teased boyfriend and fvck the shyt out of her "friend" who hangs on the side. Teasing you likely excites her, makes her feel more sexual and in turn she shares it with her man or another man.
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Lol the chick I'm talking to is ****ing multiple men. She hasn't got a boyfriend. Your right she is constantly teasing me. Just like just about every chick i've come across.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.