Friendzone

[151674]

I've done both.

Trust me on the "energy" it's not about reading books. I'm real sensitive about my energy. While peoples image of us shouldn't be the image we use for ourselves, if we keep hanging around ones who have a poor image of us, that image will start to take precedent in our mind. It's important to hang with and be with females who see you as a sexually attractive male. That energy will be strengthened in you thru external validation. Internal validation is very important to. They both work together to make your swag.

That female friend of yours likes teasing you. Now what would be worse if she flipped it. She teased boyfriend and fvck the shyt out of her "friend" who hangs on the side. Teasing you likely excites her, makes her feel more sexual and in turn she shares it with her man or another man.

Lol you can read all the books in the world on how to get or stay out the friendzone. You still have to go out in the field and get the experience. All I can do is learn from the friendzone experience and hope to not make that mistake again. Just because a woman sending you pics of her topless doesnt mean she wanna fvck you. I had one sent me a pic of her vagina and still no fvcking

 

[151674]

They get more pizzed and competitive when you are fvcking another.

Thats why imma go fvck other females

 

[7onriverI f]

Lol you can read all the books in the world on how to get or stay out the friendzone. You still have to go out in the field and get the experience. All I can do is learn from the friendzone experience and hope to not make that mistake again. Just because a woman sending you pics of her topless doesnt mean she wanna fvck you. I had one sent me a pic of her vagina and still no fvcking

Lol you shouldn't even give a damn if one girl doesn't want to **** you or be your gf. Because there's tons of others that will. Just go out the club or go on tinder and girls will say they want **** and give you there address. girls at clubs making out with you. girls going home with you In your car after a night out. I've field tested this **** but field testing on how to get out of the friendzone? I don't even think the friendzone exists to be honest.

 

[151674]

Lol you shouldn't even give a damn if one girl doesn't want to **** you or be your gf. Because there's tons of others that will. Just go out the club or go on tinder and girls will say they want **** and give you there address. girls at clubs making out with you. girls going home with you In your car after a night out. I've field tested this **** but field testing on how to get out of the friendzone? I don't even think the friendzone exists to be honest.

Im talking bout being in the field in general not just to get out the friendzone. No I shouldn't give a damn about this one chick but I aint gonna pretend I dont care when I do care about this chick.

 

[Kotaix]

Here’s the thing I learned. If you ever DO get out of it, you won’t be interested in her by then anyways. A new girl comes along and all your attention goes to her. Before you know it you can’t even remember old girls name. Then by the time you see her again, you probably won’t be nearly ass attracted to her as you once were. That’s when she might pursue you but you’ve lost all interest.

^^^This.

You're able to have a chance with her because of your ability to treat her like a regular human being and not something worthy of adoration in some way.

Anyone have success exiting the friendzone?

 

[Robert28]

^^^This.

You're able to have a chance with her because of your ability to treat her like a regular human being and not something worthy of adoration in some way.

Anyone have success exiting the friendzone?

Twice. But I didn’t take either chance. Common denominator for both “you’re free!” passes was a new girl. A better looking girl or a girl equal to the one that friendzoned me. You also need to take some time away, in my case it was 5 months from one and the other it was a couple weeks because we were in school together and saw each other all the time.
The best lesson I can give is really to walk away as soon as you get any hint or clarity that you’re in the FZ. With maturity and wisdom you might can juggle a friendzone while meeting other women, but honestly any woman that friend zoned me at my age (38) is immature as fvck and can’t be up front, so she disqualified herself anyways. FZ is for high school and college, after that women need to learn to communicate. If they can’t do that in their 30’s and beyond then you’ll know why they’re single.

 

[151674]

Twice. But I didn’t take either chance. Common denominator for both “you’re free!” passes was a new girl. A better looking girl or a girl equal to the one that friendzoned me. You also need to take some time away, in my case it was 5 months from one and the other it was a couple weeks because we were in school together and saw each other all the time.
The best lesson I can give is really to walk away as soon as you get any hint or clarity that you’re in the FZ. With maturity and wisdom you might can juggle a friendzone while meeting other women, but honestly any woman that friend zoned me at my age (38) is immature as fvck and can’t be up front, so she disqualified herself anyways. FZ is for high school and college, after that women need to learn to communicate. If they can’t do that in their 30’s and beyond then you’ll know why they’re single.

Thats some real good advice im 32 so you would think we would be too old for this FZ bull****. Btw shes 43 and FZ me.

 

[Robert28]

Thats some real good advice im 32 so you would think we would be too old for this FZ bull****. Btw shes 43 and FZ me.

Emotionally immature women can be any age. I learned that the hard way. And the funny thing is they strut around pretending to be mature but they are anything but. I had a woman who was 34 try to friendzone me. She didn’t like my answer “sorry but I don’t do that high school bull****. I’m looking for an adult relationship, I’ll see you later.”
ive also learned that women who are old and still trying to friendzone guys, are also delusional and think they can still pull Chad. They get it skewed that pump and dump means “they still got it!”, so they hold out for Chad to commit. But Chad ain’t gonna commit, not to her. But she doesn’t know that, she passes over many decent guys waiting on Chad to come back around. Maybe THIS time he won’t leave.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

Emotionally immature women can be any age. I learned that the hard way. And the funny thing is they strut around pretending to be mature but they are anything but. I had a woman who was 34 try to friendzone me. She didn’t like my answer “sorry but I don’t do that high school bull****. I’m looking for an adult relationship, I’ll see you later.”
ive also learned that women who are old and still trying to friendzone guys, are also delusional and think they can still pull Chad. They get it skewed that pump and dump means “they still got it!”, so they hold out for Chad to commit. But Chad ain’t gonna commit, not to her. But she doesn’t know that, she passes over many decent guys waiting on Chad to come back around. Maybe THIS time he won’t leave.

^"maybe THIS time he won't leave"

lol, this is exactly true

 

[151674]

Emotionally immature women can be any age. I learned that the hard way. And the funny thing is they strut around pretending to be mature but they are anything but. I had a woman who was 34 try to friendzone me. She didn’t like my answer “sorry but I don’t do that high school bull****. I’m looking for an adult relationship, I’ll see you later.”
ive also learned that women who are old and still trying to friendzone guys, are also delusional and think they can still pull Chad. They get it skewed that pump and dump means “they still got it!”, so they hold out for Chad to commit. But Chad ain’t gonna commit, not to her. But she doesn’t know that, she passes over many decent guys waiting on Chad to come back around. Maybe THIS time he won’t leave.

Yep thats what I tell them too that im not looking for no female friends and walked away. Yep they are very delusional doing that in their 30s and up

 

[Robert28]

I’ve seen a lot of guys actually give the friendzone thing a chance, “hey, I’ll make a new friend, cool”. Here’s what usually happens though, for a year or less it will be one of the most intense relationships ever. The woman will purposely make it feel like a relationship (daily contact, “dates”, favors, etc) everything BUT the physical part. Maybe a hug or they’ll kiss the guy on the cheek, but everything else is exactly like a relationship. Then oneday she becomes distant. The guy doesn’t know what’s going on so he pursues harder trying to “fix it”, then she does the “I need some space, some time, need to step back”. See, this whole time she was lining up her next actual boyfriend but the guy was so focused on her that he didn’t move on. Now she’s cut off the fake friendship they he went in with good intentions and invested a lot into. She manipulated him to invest in it, but she never did which is why she can step back from it at the drop of a hat. If this don’t black pill a guy, nothing will. I’ve seen this happen countless times, lucky I’ve never had it happen to me. Which is why you never never never accept to be friends with a woman. I just gave you an example of why they make **** friends.

 

[151674]

I’ve seen a lot of guys actually give the friendzone thing a chance, “hey, I’ll make a new friend, cool”. Here’s what usually happens though, for a year or less it will be one of the most intense relationships ever. The woman will purposely make it feel like a relationship (daily contact, “dates”, favors, etc) everything BUT the physical part. Maybe a hug or they’ll kiss the guy on the cheek, but everything else is exactly like a relationship. Then oneday she becomes distant. The guy doesn’t know what’s going on so he pursues harder trying to “fix it”, then she does the “I need some space, some time, need to step back”. See, this whole time she was lining up her next actual boyfriend but the guy was so focused on her that he didn’t move on. Now she’s cut off the fake friendship they he went in with good intentions and invested a lot into. She manipulated him to invest in it, but she never did which is why she can step back from it at the drop of a hat. If this don’t black pill a guy, nothing will. I’ve seen this happen countless times, lucky I’ve never had it happen to me. Which is why you never never never accept to be friends with a woman. I just gave you an example of why they make **** friends.

I actually had that hapoen to me in my early 20s. I fell for the oh I just have to get to know you first and see where it goes. I go along with it and still take her out on dates paying for dinner n drinks. After awhile I noticed her replys was getting less until one day she asked me why I cant find a good guy like you. Now I was 21 at that time and I had to asked her. Do you understand the question you just asked me. She paused and looked at me nervously so I walked away. Now this 43 year old telling me shes feeling me and wanna see me blah blah blah. I said then come to my crib if you wanna see me and she said well I wanna be friends first before I do that. So I told her Im not trynna be your friend and walked away. She followed me and yelling at me telling me to get off my phone but I didnt listen n kept walking n talking on my phone