You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
lol. you know what?Fuglydude said:Furious masturbation sesssions. Alternately...lots of hard intense sex. (3 x 30 min sessions per day would be nice!) A good hard slamming session can be a decent work out.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Baked-bean tin curls, 3x8-10, add tins as necessary. This will also help your stablizer muscles, as the more tins you use, the more you'll have to balance them...djneo said:.. i'm a busy person i don't have time to go to gym.. can give me some exercise where i can improve my mucsle in my arms and in my abs?
:crackup: this is by far the funniest response :crackup:Mad Manic said:Biceps: BB Curls, DB Curls, Cable Curls, Machine Preacher Curls etc
Triceps: Close-Grip Bench, Narrow Dips, DB One-Arm Ext, Skull Crushers, Pushdowns etc
Abs: Weighted Crunches (Flat or Decline)
For Bis and Tris: 6-12 Reps (8-10 being best IMO)
Abs: Around 15 reps IMO but generally 12-20.
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.