"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Flaming hell you guys are anal over lifting weights too......
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
And strength.
But Pavel isn't the only way nor the best way.
Pavel isn't good with health, I know plenty of other people who has better information on "how to be healthy" than Pavel's. I'll admit, he can make you strong but not as healthy as other source that I know.
webmd.com
nih.gov
healthfinder.gov
Some more I can't remember.
Those are good to start.
I am a mixed bodybuilder/powerlifter, not pure like "Real Man".
Phenomenom101
Don Juan
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
If it is then go tell that to the dweebs at bodybuilding.com.
Saine, we're not talking about diseases here. We're talking physical health, and Pavel IS good with that.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
bodybuilding.com is bodybuilding.com
sosuave is sosuave
We're talking about the entire package. You can't just worry about the outside but not inside, vice versa. Like I said, there are some other link which I'm tired to bring up now. Sherdog's forum is one of them.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You dont like me do you? Is it cos i call a spade a spade?
I speak the truth always. My shiiat is the real deal. anything i say on here is the truth gained from real world experience. Whether it be about women or lifting weights. I know my shiat.
Combine a good weights routine with interval cardio. Healthy inside and out.
You can even do weights in interval fashion - high rep clean and presses for example. Get you huffing and puffing.
Forget the 30 minute slow paced cardio on bikes and rowers. do running (roadwork) it is good and develops different type of wind to hIt cardio.
Saine, if you can't bench one hundred ("200 lb. reps? Wtf? Some of us can't even bench half of what we weigh") then you are on the wrong forum. If you can't bench 200 do what is acceptable to you. T TH S... wow, you completely killed his point. His point was do it at intervals, 3x/week with 1 day rest between... its a valid point... give your muscles time to recuperate. Also, don't take stuff so literal to make a point, no wonder this thread is titled "Flaming hell."
Real man,
Shut the ƒuck up with your racist crap.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Uh, that's not a racist phrase. Quit being so friggin liberal.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Spade=Coon=N*gger
What the hell does "liberal" have to do with any of this? I just don't need to hear stupid white guys "front" about how they "tell it to a n!gga like a n!gga" and how they're bad ass. Keep your fake sh!t to yourself and you ain't black, whitie. We already have Eminem.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
And niggardly is defined by the Oxford English Dictionary as "someone who is cheap, stingy." I hope you understand what Spade means. Now, you don't know my race so don't make retarded conclusions, try to guess my race, homie. You won't get it. And I'm an embarassment? ROFL! Keep trying...
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
drixsa
Master Don Juan
calling a spade a spade is a term relating to cards
spades, heats, dimonds, etc.
when some one says they call a spade a spade it means that they are saying it as it is
it has nothing to do with race
besides i havent seen anything about race in this thread
just about pu$$ies
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.