You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
And strength.Originally posted by MetalFortress
Aside from the attitude, I agree with Real Man. Go look up Pavel if you want REAL health and fitness knowledge.
If it is then go tell that to the dweebs at bodybuilding.com.Originally posted by Phenomenom101
Of course you would have to agree with the idiot. The guy is practically saying "lift heavy, and eat a lot". FUKKIN DUH! Thats practically the basis of bodybuilding.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
bodybuilding.com is bodybuilding.comOriginally posted by MetalFortress
If it is then go tell that to the dweebs at bodybuilding.com.
Saine, we're not talking about diseases here. We're talking physical health, and Pavel IS good with that.
Why don't we call for a ban? We seriously already know this. Seriously.Originally posted by Phrozen
I have never met a real man who makes a habit of calling other men pussies.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Saine, if you can't bench one hundred ("200 lb. reps? Wtf? Some of us can't even bench half of what we weigh") then you are on the wrong forum. If you can't bench 200 do what is acceptable to you. T TH S... wow, you completely killed his point. His point was do it at intervals, 3x/week with 1 day rest between... its a valid point... give your muscles time to recuperate. Also, don't take stuff so literal to make a point, no wonder this thread is titled "Flaming hell."Originally posted by Saine
It's a useless recap and can be vague.
200 lb. reps? Wtf? Some of us can't even bench half of what we weigh. Ketogenic? Oh boy.
Then dictating OUR workout time for us? I have had T, TH, and SAT. What are you gonna say? Huh?
That's for getting "big and strong". Why not read the guides stickied? Jeez,
Shut the ƒuck up with your racist crap.Originally posted by Real Man
Is it cos i call a spade a spade?
Uh, that's not a racist phrase. Quit being so friggin liberal.Originally posted by MVPlaya
Shut the ƒuck up with your racist crap.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Spade=Coon=N*ggerOriginally posted by MetalFortress
Uh, that's not a racist phrase. Quit being so friggin liberal.
And niggardly is defined by the Oxford English Dictionary as "someone who is cheap, stingy." I hope you understand what Spade means. Now, you don't know my race so don't make retarded conclusions, try to guess my race, homie. You won't get it. And I'm an embarassment? ROFL! Keep trying...Originally posted by MetalFortress
"Call a spade a spade" is a term for calling them like you see them. Now you're hating on white people in defense of your own race too. Stop being such an embarrassement to your race and stop being so paranoid..
calling a spade a spade is a term relating to cardsOriginally posted by MVPlaya
Shut the ƒuck up with your racist crap.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.