"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Flaming hell you guys are anal over lifting weights too......
- Thread starter Real Man
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
And strength.
But Pavel isn't the only way nor the best way.
Pavel isn't good with health, I know plenty of other people who has better information on "how to be healthy" than Pavel's. I'll admit, he can make you strong but not as healthy as other source that I know.
webmd.com
nih.gov
healthfinder.gov
Some more I can't remember.
Those are good to start.
I am a mixed bodybuilder/powerlifter, not pure like "Real Man".
Phenomenom101
Don Juan
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
If it is then go tell that to the dweebs at bodybuilding.com.
Saine, we're not talking about diseases here. We're talking physical health, and Pavel IS good with that.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
bodybuilding.com is bodybuilding.com
sosuave is sosuave
We're talking about the entire package. You can't just worry about the outside but not inside, vice versa. Like I said, there are some other link which I'm tired to bring up now. Sherdog's forum is one of them.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You dont like me do you? Is it cos i call a spade a spade?
I speak the truth always. My shiiat is the real deal. anything i say on here is the truth gained from real world experience. Whether it be about women or lifting weights. I know my shiat.
Combine a good weights routine with interval cardio. Healthy inside and out.
You can even do weights in interval fashion - high rep clean and presses for example. Get you huffing and puffing.
Forget the 30 minute slow paced cardio on bikes and rowers. do running (roadwork) it is good and develops different type of wind to hIt cardio.
Saine, if you can't bench one hundred ("200 lb. reps? Wtf? Some of us can't even bench half of what we weigh") then you are on the wrong forum. If you can't bench 200 do what is acceptable to you. T TH S... wow, you completely killed his point. His point was do it at intervals, 3x/week with 1 day rest between... its a valid point... give your muscles time to recuperate. Also, don't take stuff so literal to make a point, no wonder this thread is titled "Flaming hell."
Real man,
Shut the ƒuck up with your racist crap.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Uh, that's not a racist phrase. Quit being so friggin liberal.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Spade=Coon=N*gger
What the hell does "liberal" have to do with any of this? I just don't need to hear stupid white guys "front" about how they "tell it to a n!gga like a n!gga" and how they're bad ass. Keep your fake sh!t to yourself and you ain't black, whitie. We already have Eminem.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
And niggardly is defined by the Oxford English Dictionary as "someone who is cheap, stingy." I hope you understand what Spade means. Now, you don't know my race so don't make retarded conclusions, try to guess my race, homie. You won't get it. And I'm an embarassment? ROFL! Keep trying...
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
drixsa
Master Don Juan
calling a spade a spade is a term relating to cards
spades, heats, dimonds, etc.
when some one says they call a spade a spade it means that they are saying it as it is
it has nothing to do with race
besides i havent seen anything about race in this thread
just about pu$$ies
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.