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I'm trying to use eye contact alot more but it feels like im staring at them :nervous: and it feels kinda weird. How long is too long?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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However long you're comfortable with is your best bet. When it starts to feel weird for you, chances are that it feels weird for them too.
Metaphysical
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Eye contact is simply THE most important tool you can use as a player. If you develop your skills good enough to be able to read a woman's eyes within a second, then you are able to know with 100% certainty if she likes you or not. And yes, I do mean 100% certainty.
There's an almost intuition or a 6th sense which overwhelms the trained man to know when a woman is checking him out and when she is just looking at him cause she's bored.
And the beautiful thing about eye contact is that once you develop your skills and you are able to spot women checking you out, they are ALREADY attracted to you, so you don't need to waste your time running up in their faces with pick up lines. Anything you will say will work because they already want you.
If you are refering to making eye contact while SPEAKING to a girl, then hold it as long as it seems comfortable. I grew up making a lot of contact being raised in Europe. Over there, if you don't make a lot of eye contact, people think you are weird or hiding something. (I know many of you are from UK. I don't know what the deal is there, but I refer to actual central Europe)
There's an almost intuition or a 6th sense which overwhelms the trained man to know when a woman is checking him out and when she is just looking at him cause she's bored.
And the beautiful thing about eye contact is that once you develop your skills and you are able to spot women checking you out, they are ALREADY attracted to you, so you don't need to waste your time running up in their faces with pick up lines. Anything you will say will work because they already want you.
If you are refering to making eye contact while SPEAKING to a girl, then hold it as long as it seems comfortable. I grew up making a lot of contact being raised in Europe. Over there, if you don't make a lot of eye contact, people think you are weird or hiding something. (I know many of you are from UK. I don't know what the deal is there, but I refer to actual central Europe)
oakraiderz2
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Smile and you wont feel like a creep, unless youre creepy.
I4EVAPIMPIN
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Eye contact is simply THE most important tool you can use as a player. If you develop your skills good enough to be able to read a woman's eyes within a second, then you are able to know with 100% certainty if she likes you or not. And yes, I do mean 100% certainty.
There's an almost intuition or a 6th sense which overwhelms the trained man to know when a woman is checking him out and when she is just looking at him cause she's bored.
And the beautiful thing about eye contact is that once you develop your skills and you are able to spot women checking you out, they are ALREADY attracted to you, so you don't need to waste your time running up in their faces with pick up lines. Anything you will say will work because they already want you.
If you are refering to making eye contact while SPEAKING to a girl, then hold it as long as it seems comfortable. I grew up making a lot of contact being raised in Europe. Over there, if you don't make a lot of eye contact, people think you are weird or hiding something. (I know many of you are from UK. I don't know what the deal is there, but I refer to actual central Europe)
I'm from America, but i can't wait until I get to that level you were talking about.
There's an almost intuition or a 6th sense which overwhelms the trained man to know when a woman is checking him out and when she is just looking at him cause she's bored.
And the beautiful thing about eye contact is that once you develop your skills and you are able to spot women checking you out, they are ALREADY attracted to you, so you don't need to waste your time running up in their faces with pick up lines. Anything you will say will work because they already want you.
If you are refering to making eye contact while SPEAKING to a girl, then hold it as long as it seems comfortable. I grew up making a lot of contact being raised in Europe. Over there, if you don't make a lot of eye contact, people think you are weird or hiding something. (I know many of you are from UK. I don't know what the deal is there, but I refer to actual central Europe)
I'm from America, but i can't wait until I get to that level you were talking about.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I'm from the America, but I can't wait until I get to that level your talking aboutI4EVAPIMPIN said:
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def ****ed up that reply
Atom Smasher
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I have a habit of looking too intensely at people, so I find I need to moderate my eye contact.
I tend to concentrate on one of her eyes only and wander between her eye and her nose. This way I'm not looking right through her, which can seem creepy.
Looking away to the side periodically is also effective, as it conveys that there are other things out there that can hold your attention. Just never look down as that conveys submission.
I tend to concentrate on one of her eyes only and wander between her eye and her nose. This way I'm not looking right through her, which can seem creepy.
Looking away to the side periodically is also effective, as it conveys that there are other things out there that can hold your attention. Just never look down as that conveys submission.
STORY:
I was in the subway 6 months ago and a lady (26 27 28 years probably a 7-8) was sitting in front of me! I started looking at her and she started looking at me to for a bout two minutes! She took a very aggressive FACE while looking at me! Finally she gave up! I started smiling at her like at a little CHILD! When i changed stations she followed me and started givin' me looks and stuff!
IT'S FREAKING' POWERFUL! When you look at them just think : "I'M THE MAN! I CAN EAT YOU ALIVE AND NOT EVEN NOTICE IT you KID!"
I was in the subway 6 months ago and a lady (26 27 28 years probably a 7-8) was sitting in front of me! I started looking at her and she started looking at me to for a bout two minutes! She took a very aggressive FACE while looking at me! Finally she gave up! I started smiling at her like at a little CHILD! When i changed stations she followed me and started givin' me looks and stuff!
IT'S FREAKING' POWERFUL! When you look at them just think : "I'M THE MAN! I CAN EAT YOU ALIVE AND NOT EVEN NOTICE IT you KID!"
I4EVAPIMPIN
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lol, ok I'll keep that in mind
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.