Eye contact

[I4EVAPIMPIN]

I'm trying to use eye contact alot more but it feels like im staring at them :nervous: and it feels kinda weird. How long is too long?

 

[Jack Paradox]

However long you're comfortable with is your best bet. When it starts to feel weird for you, chances are that it feels weird for them too.

 

[Metaphysical]

Eye contact is simply THE most important tool you can use as a player. If you develop your skills good enough to be able to read a woman's eyes within a second, then you are able to know with 100% certainty if she likes you or not. And yes, I do mean 100% certainty.

There's an almost intuition or a 6th sense which overwhelms the trained man to know when a woman is checking him out and when she is just looking at him cause she's bored.

And the beautiful thing about eye contact is that once you develop your skills and you are able to spot women checking you out, they are ALREADY attracted to you, so you don't need to waste your time running up in their faces with pick up lines. Anything you will say will work because they already want you.

If you are refering to making eye contact while SPEAKING to a girl, then hold it as long as it seems comfortable. I grew up making a lot of contact being raised in Europe. Over there, if you don't make a lot of eye contact, people think you are weird or hiding something. (I know many of you are from UK. I don't know what the deal is there, but I refer to actual central Europe)

 

[oakraiderz2]

Smile and you wont feel like a creep, unless youre creepy.

 

[I4EVAPIMPIN]

Eye contact is simply THE most important tool you can use as a player. If you develop your skills good enough to be able to read a woman's eyes within a second, then you are able to know with 100% certainty if she likes you or not. And yes, I do mean 100% certainty.

There's an almost intuition or a 6th sense which overwhelms the trained man to know when a woman is checking him out and when she is just looking at him cause she's bored.

And the beautiful thing about eye contact is that once you develop your skills and you are able to spot women checking you out, they are ALREADY attracted to you, so you don't need to waste your time running up in their faces with pick up lines. Anything you will say will work because they already want you.

If you are refering to making eye contact while SPEAKING to a girl, then hold it as long as it seems comfortable. I grew up making a lot of contact being raised in Europe. Over there, if you don't make a lot of eye contact, people think you are weird or hiding something. (I know many of you are from UK. I don't know what the deal is there, but I refer to actual central Europe)


I'm from America, but i can't wait until I get to that level you were talking about.

 

[I4EVAPIMPIN]

Eye contact is simply THE most important tool you can use as a player. If you develop your skills good enough to be able to read a woman's eyes within a second, then you are able to know with 100% certainty if she likes you or not. And yes, I do mean 100% certainty.

There's an almost intuition or a 6th sense which overwhelms the trained man to know when a woman is checking him out and when she is just looking at him cause she's bored.

And the beautiful thing about eye contact is that once you develop your skills and you are able to spot women checking you out, they are ALREADY attracted to you, so you don't need to waste your time running up in their faces with pick up lines. Anything you will say will work because they already want you.

If you are refering to making eye contact while SPEAKING to a girl, then hold it as long as it seems comfortable. I grew up making a lot of contact being raised in Europe. Over there, if you don't make a lot of eye contact, people think you are weird or hiding something. (I know many of you are from UK. I don't know what the deal is there, but I refer to actual central Europe)

I'm from the America, but I can't wait until I get to that level your talking about

 

[I4EVAPIMPIN]

def ****ed up that reply

 

[Atom Smasher]

I have a habit of looking too intensely at people, so I find I need to moderate my eye contact.

I tend to concentrate on one of her eyes only and wander between her eye and her nose. This way I'm not looking right through her, which can seem creepy.

Looking away to the side periodically is also effective, as it conveys that there are other things out there that can hold your attention. Just never look down as that conveys submission.

 

[parrot84]

STORY:
I was in the subway 6 months ago and a lady (26 27 28 years probably a 7-8) was sitting in front of me! I started looking at her and she started looking at me to for a bout two minutes! She took a very aggressive FACE while looking at me! Finally she gave up! I started smiling at her like at a little CHILD! When i changed stations she followed me and started givin' me looks and stuff!

IT'S FREAKING' POWERFUL! When you look at them just think : "I'M THE MAN! I CAN EAT YOU ALIVE AND NOT EVEN NOTICE IT you KID!"

 

[I4EVAPIMPIN]

lol, ok I'll keep that in mind