I4EVAPIMPIN
New Member
- Joined
- Sep 28, 2008
- Messages
- 7
- Reaction score
- 0
I'm trying to use eye contact alot more but it feels like im staring at them :nervous: and it feels kinda weird. How long is too long?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Eye contact
- Thread starter I4EVAPIMPIN
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Jack Paradox
Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 29, 2008
- Messages
- 23
- Reaction score
- 0
However long you're comfortable with is your best bet. When it starts to feel weird for you, chances are that it feels weird for them too.
Metaphysical
Senior Don Juan
Eye contact is simply THE most important tool you can use as a player. If you develop your skills good enough to be able to read a woman's eyes within a second, then you are able to know with 100% certainty if she likes you or not. And yes, I do mean 100% certainty.
There's an almost intuition or a 6th sense which overwhelms the trained man to know when a woman is checking him out and when she is just looking at him cause she's bored.
And the beautiful thing about eye contact is that once you develop your skills and you are able to spot women checking you out, they are ALREADY attracted to you, so you don't need to waste your time running up in their faces with pick up lines. Anything you will say will work because they already want you.
If you are refering to making eye contact while SPEAKING to a girl, then hold it as long as it seems comfortable. I grew up making a lot of contact being raised in Europe. Over there, if you don't make a lot of eye contact, people think you are weird or hiding something. (I know many of you are from UK. I don't know what the deal is there, but I refer to actual central Europe)
There's an almost intuition or a 6th sense which overwhelms the trained man to know when a woman is checking him out and when she is just looking at him cause she's bored.
And the beautiful thing about eye contact is that once you develop your skills and you are able to spot women checking you out, they are ALREADY attracted to you, so you don't need to waste your time running up in their faces with pick up lines. Anything you will say will work because they already want you.
If you are refering to making eye contact while SPEAKING to a girl, then hold it as long as it seems comfortable. I grew up making a lot of contact being raised in Europe. Over there, if you don't make a lot of eye contact, people think you are weird or hiding something. (I know many of you are from UK. I don't know what the deal is there, but I refer to actual central Europe)
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Smile and you wont feel like a creep, unless youre creepy.
I4EVAPIMPIN
New Member
- Joined
- Sep 28, 2008
- Messages
- 7
- Reaction score
- 0
Eye contact is simply THE most important tool you can use as a player. If you develop your skills good enough to be able to read a woman's eyes within a second, then you are able to know with 100% certainty if she likes you or not. And yes, I do mean 100% certainty.
There's an almost intuition or a 6th sense which overwhelms the trained man to know when a woman is checking him out and when she is just looking at him cause she's bored.
And the beautiful thing about eye contact is that once you develop your skills and you are able to spot women checking you out, they are ALREADY attracted to you, so you don't need to waste your time running up in their faces with pick up lines. Anything you will say will work because they already want you.
If you are refering to making eye contact while SPEAKING to a girl, then hold it as long as it seems comfortable. I grew up making a lot of contact being raised in Europe. Over there, if you don't make a lot of eye contact, people think you are weird or hiding something. (I know many of you are from UK. I don't know what the deal is there, but I refer to actual central Europe)
I'm from America, but i can't wait until I get to that level you were talking about.
There's an almost intuition or a 6th sense which overwhelms the trained man to know when a woman is checking him out and when she is just looking at him cause she's bored.
And the beautiful thing about eye contact is that once you develop your skills and you are able to spot women checking you out, they are ALREADY attracted to you, so you don't need to waste your time running up in their faces with pick up lines. Anything you will say will work because they already want you.
If you are refering to making eye contact while SPEAKING to a girl, then hold it as long as it seems comfortable. I grew up making a lot of contact being raised in Europe. Over there, if you don't make a lot of eye contact, people think you are weird or hiding something. (I know many of you are from UK. I don't know what the deal is there, but I refer to actual central Europe)
I'm from America, but i can't wait until I get to that level you were talking about.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I4EVAPIMPIN
New Member
- Joined
- Sep 28, 2008
- Messages
- 7
- Reaction score
- 0
I'm from the America, but I can't wait until I get to that level your talking aboutI4EVAPIMPIN said:
I4EVAPIMPIN
New Member
- Joined
- Sep 28, 2008
- Messages
- 7
- Reaction score
- 0
def ****ed up that reply
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I have a habit of looking too intensely at people, so I find I need to moderate my eye contact.
I tend to concentrate on one of her eyes only and wander between her eye and her nose. This way I'm not looking right through her, which can seem creepy.
Looking away to the side periodically is also effective, as it conveys that there are other things out there that can hold your attention. Just never look down as that conveys submission.
I tend to concentrate on one of her eyes only and wander between her eye and her nose. This way I'm not looking right through her, which can seem creepy.
Looking away to the side periodically is also effective, as it conveys that there are other things out there that can hold your attention. Just never look down as that conveys submission.
STORY:
I was in the subway 6 months ago and a lady (26 27 28 years probably a 7-8) was sitting in front of me! I started looking at her and she started looking at me to for a bout two minutes! She took a very aggressive FACE while looking at me! Finally she gave up! I started smiling at her like at a little CHILD! When i changed stations she followed me and started givin' me looks and stuff!
IT'S FREAKING' POWERFUL! When you look at them just think : "I'M THE MAN! I CAN EAT YOU ALIVE AND NOT EVEN NOTICE IT you KID!"
I was in the subway 6 months ago and a lady (26 27 28 years probably a 7-8) was sitting in front of me! I started looking at her and she started looking at me to for a bout two minutes! She took a very aggressive FACE while looking at me! Finally she gave up! I started smiling at her like at a little CHILD! When i changed stations she followed me and started givin' me looks and stuff!
IT'S FREAKING' POWERFUL! When you look at them just think : "I'M THE MAN! I CAN EAT YOU ALIVE AND NOT EVEN NOTICE IT you KID!"
I4EVAPIMPIN
New Member
- Joined
- Sep 28, 2008
- Messages
- 7
- Reaction score
- 0
lol, ok I'll keep that in mind
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.