Excuses for "not interested"

Jor-El

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Just for fun and amusement,what are common "thanks but no thanks" responses/excuses from women when you pitch the date (when they are trying to be polite but really its game over!)

Il start with

"Il let you know"
 

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I have been told that they were going to the hospital and were really sick.

One I got a text from her "Mom" explaining she was in a really bad car wreck and couldn't make it.

One said they had to take their dog for emergency surgery.

A few just never showed up and never communicated with me again.
 

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"Let's wait for (insert any day of the week) to come first."
 

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I have been told that they were going to the hospital and were really sick.

One I got a text from her "Mom" explaining she was in a really bad car wreck and couldn't make it.

One said they had to take their dog for emergency surgery.

A few just never showed up and never communicated with me again.
Blimey,some hardcore excuses there!
 

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I'm 47, and I recently made out with a girl who is 28, who I've known for 10 years. I got her number, texted her, she replied, but wouldn't lock down a date. Tried a week later, no reply.

I saw her last night, as I was exciting a bar, while she was entering, and she was like "Hi xxxx!", and I responded "Hi xxx!", but left it at that and walked home.

It's confusing, but sometimes you can't win.
 

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I'm 47, and I recently made out with a girl who is 28, who I've known for 10 years. I got her number, texted her, she replied, but wouldn't lock down a date. Tried a week later, no reply.

I saw her last night, as I was exciting a bar, while she was entering, and she was like "Hi xxxx!", and I responded "Hi xxx!", but left it at that and walked home.

It's confusing, but sometimes you can't win.
The polarity isn't right , she may be slightly interested but not enough to make her want too see you
 

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The polarity isn't right , she may be slightly interested but not enough to make her want too see you
I think I lost my frame. I was exciting the pub, and she was entering. She said hello first. I focused on her. I should have given more scope to who she was with, ie: a guy or not? If not, I should've gone back in the pub with her. I messaged her when I got home, but she didn't reply.
 

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What do you mean by that? She would smash, but depending on her mood?
I mean you haven't done a good enough job at placing her in her feminine frame and you in your masculine

She's a 20 something woman she wants to be dominated and led she doesn't want to sense indecision /confusion or fear from you

You're like 20 years older than her act like It .
 

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I mean you haven't done a good enough job at placing her in her feminine frame and you in your masculine

She's a 20 something woman she wants to be dominated and led she doesn't want to sense indecision /confusion or fear from you

You're like 20 years older than her act like It .
Thanks for the advice.
 

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Do any of you watch pop the balloon with Arlette Amuli? Watch episode 15 or 23. Good lord, when did 6'2 and 6'3 get considered short outside of the NBA? I'm gonna have to sell my Lexus and get a Benz now, if not a Maserati. It seems car shaming is a thing too, where you better be driving a high end BMW, Benz, or European exotic. I'm 6'2 myself now I gotta get height surgery? Damn. Anyways, here's some phrases.

You're not my type.
Let's be friends first.
You look like my ex/cousin/baby daddy.
I'm having covid symptoms.
You're a nice guy/so sweet but...
I have a boyfriend.
I don't feel a spark.
I know someone who'd love to meet you.
You're too xyz.
You're not xyz enough.
Let's talk more on the site.
Maybe/ I'll let you know/ we'll see.
Give me your number first.

To name a few.
 
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