BackInTheGame78
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Maybe if you like making yourself no challenge to a woman.
"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
Ex GF Will Not Go Away
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Romanemp22
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So you have to string along someone 6 months and playing some games like women do? I think it's enough of a time to get exclusive, two months of dating.
BackInTheGame78
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Not about stringing them along it's about making them earn it. People inherently value something less when they didn't have to work hard to obtain it. The easier it was the less value it holds.
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I still have an ex from 10 years ago keep testing the waters for some chance, if thing didnt go her way she will smearing me around.. We have kids together, so ghosting wasnt possible here.
Shes way beyond her wall now, become bitter and crazier than ever, would get any kind of attention from me even if im retaliate on her legally shell just love it.. Its fvcking skck and im sick of it.
In your case get out while you can.. If she suicide mailing you, dont hesitate to inform the authority, it could be real and it isnt your job to go and save her.. but dont return to her call text etc. She will be gone eventually.
Shes way beyond her wall now, become bitter and crazier than ever, would get any kind of attention from me even if im retaliate on her legally shell just love it.. Its fvcking skck and im sick of it.
In your case get out while you can.. If she suicide mailing you, dont hesitate to inform the authority, it could be real and it isnt your job to go and save her.. but dont return to her call text etc. She will be gone eventually.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.