BackInTheGame78
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Maybe if you like making yourself no challenge to a woman.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ex GF Will Not Go Away
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Romanemp22
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So you have to string along someone 6 months and playing some games like women do? I think it's enough of a time to get exclusive, two months of dating.
BackInTheGame78
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Not about stringing them along it's about making them earn it. People inherently value something less when they didn't have to work hard to obtain it. The easier it was the less value it holds.
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I still have an ex from 10 years ago keep testing the waters for some chance, if thing didnt go her way she will smearing me around.. We have kids together, so ghosting wasnt possible here.
Shes way beyond her wall now, become bitter and crazier than ever, would get any kind of attention from me even if im retaliate on her legally shell just love it.. Its fvcking skck and im sick of it.
In your case get out while you can.. If she suicide mailing you, dont hesitate to inform the authority, it could be real and it isnt your job to go and save her.. but dont return to her call text etc. She will be gone eventually.
Shes way beyond her wall now, become bitter and crazier than ever, would get any kind of attention from me even if im retaliate on her legally shell just love it.. Its fvcking skck and im sick of it.
In your case get out while you can.. If she suicide mailing you, dont hesitate to inform the authority, it could be real and it isnt your job to go and save her.. but dont return to her call text etc. She will be gone eventually.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.