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She keeps texting but not in a harassing manner, however she keeps bringing "us" up. I've told her numerous times I don't want to get back together. She temporarily accepts but then returns to telling me things like she's still in love with me, etc. I actually think she's borderline suicidal or going to hurt herself. Not sure what to do at this point. I've tried "being there for her" because she moved to my city and has no friends because of Covid and I honestly feel bad for her. I guess my only other option is to completely ignore, which I think is harsh considering it was a seemingly amicable split up.
What do you guys think?
Give her a week and she'll have latched on to someone else.
 

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I appreciate the advice from all. I know her and I are incompatible as a couple, however we do see eye to eye on a ton of things. Almost like being friends is what we should've been. This was one of the most recent set of texts she sent. I ended up telling her she needs to stop texting me stuff like that and that I was done. Then blocked her.
Literally going through this same thing as I type this. Recently broken up though. She would have made an awesome best friend, a lot of similar interests and views, but she is just too controlling, negative, manipulative and gas-lighting. I get feeling bad for her and her situation but you really just have to consider your own needs and emotions and cut her off for good, or at least for some months until you have truly moved on. My ex is not texting me argumentative things like you showed - more begging and pleading, so it can be very tough on me to get that kind of thing and know she's hurting but once again, you have to move on.
 

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So you have to string along someone 6 months and playing some games like women do? I think it's enough of a time to get exclusive, two months of dating.
Not about stringing them along it's about making them earn it. People inherently value something less when they didn't have to work hard to obtain it. The easier it was the less value it holds.
 

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Not about stringing them along it's about making them earn it. People inherently value something less when they didn't have to work hard to obtain it. The easier it was the less value it holds.
For sure.

Another benefit of spinning plates in a rotation.
 

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I still have an ex from 10 years ago keep testing the waters for some chance, if thing didnt go her way she will smearing me around.. We have kids together, so ghosting wasnt possible here.

Shes way beyond her wall now, become bitter and crazier than ever, would get any kind of attention from me even if im retaliate on her legally shell just love it.. Its fvcking skck and im sick of it.

In your case get out while you can.. If she suicide mailing you, dont hesitate to inform the authority, it could be real and it isnt your job to go and save her.. but dont return to her call text etc. She will be gone eventually.
 

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Block her

Threaten her

Kill her

* Avengers music starts playing

WHATEVER IT TAKES!!!
 
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